SOME MAJOR UPDATES:

FIRST, ON TUESDAY, A VERY GOOD FRIEND & VERY OLD FRIEND, PAID THE STORAGE UNIT BILL FOR ME & MY SON, WHICH HAD A LIEN ON IT. IT WAS JUST UNDER $900. I CANNOT THANK THIS FRIEND ENOUGH!!! HE HAS HELPED ME SO MUCH & I AM SO GRATEFUL!!! ❤️ AND, THANK YOU JESUS!!! 

(I HAD REACHED OUT TO MY FAMILY, SINCE IT ABSOLUTELY AFFECTS MY SON, TO NO AVAIL.)

THE REST OF THAT DAY WAS SO BEYOND AWFUL. I HAD TWO SEPARATE COURT MATTERS THAT DAY, VIA ZOOM. THE FIRST- ORANGE COUNTY, NY WARRANT HEARING FOR MY EX-HUSBAND, REGARDING CHILD SUPPORT & IF HE WOULD BE RELEASED FROM JAIL & IF ANY CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENT WOULD BE ORDERED. THE SECOND- MUNICIPAL COURT WITH MY SISTER INLAW REGARDING BOGUS CHARGES THAT SHE PUT ON ME, THAT I'VE SPOKEN ABOUT IN A PREVIOUS UPDATE. KEEP IN MIND, MY SON MOVED IN WITH HER & MY BROTHER IN LATE JUNE. ANYTHING TO KEEP ME FROM MY CHILD... INCLUDING TRYING TO INCARCERATE ME OR EVEN WORSE, CAUSE ME TO HAVE A HEART ATTACK OR A STROKE. I DO NOT KNOW HOW MUCH MORE OF THIS I CAN TAKE. I WILL JUST KEEP FIGHTING FOR WHAT IS RIGHT, WITH THE TRUTH ON MY SIDE, AND PRAY THAT I DON'T DROP. THIS IS ALL ABUSE. MY DESPAIR OVER MY SON IS OVERWHELMING. ITS BEEN TEN & A HALF MONTHS SINCE HE WENT NO CONTACT WITH ME, FOR NO GOOD REASON. I CAN BARELY BREATHE. I CAN BARELY STAND. ALL I DO IS CRY. I'M LOSING MY HAIR, I DO NOT SLEEP, MIGRAINES EVERY DAY, I NOW HAVE CHRONIC PAIN, ALONG WITH THE ANXIETY, DEPRESSION & PTSD THAT I WAS ALREADY DEALING WITH. I CAN BARELY FUNCTION. EVERY DAY SUCKS. EVERY SECOND OF MY DAY SUCKS. BETWEEN THE HEARTBREAK & THE STRESS OF THE THREE COURT MATTERS- TWO OF WHICH ARE BOGUS & RETALIATION & TRULY MENTAL ABUSE- PRICELESS PETS & MY SISTER INLAW. THE THIRD IS THE CHILD SUPPORT MATTER, WHICH IS SO RIDICULOUSLY OUT OF HAND, A COMPLETE JOKE, A NIGHTMARE FOR WELL OVER FIFTEEN YEARS & TOTALLY ABSURD. IT MAKES NO SENSE. THE SYSTEM IS BROKEN & CORRUPT. THEY ARE NOT FOR THE KIDS. IT IS ABOUT MONEY & POWER. ITS A MONEY MAKING MACHINE. I CAN NOW 100% ADD NY TO MY NJ PLIGHT AND TO MY PETITION. I AM LOOKING INTO JOINING SUBSTACK, AND WRITING ARTICLES ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION. IT WOULD HOPEFULLY BE A WAY TO POSSIBLY EARN AN INCOME, NOT ONLY ***WHILE*** GOING THROUGH THIS, BUT ACTUALLY ***BECAUSE*** I'M GOING THROUGH THIS. I HAVE BEEN TRYING FOR MONTHS, TO THINK OF A WAY TO EITHER START A BLOG OR WRITE ARTICLES, BUT I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO GO ABOUT THAT. I CAME ACROSS A SUBSTACK ARTICLE TODAY, AND AFTER RESEARCHING IT A BIT, I REALIZED THAT ANYONE CAN JOIN. I NEVER KNEW THAT. IF ANYONE HAS ANY KNOWLEDGE OR KNOWS ANYONE THAT CAN HELP ME, PLEASE REACH OUT. I HAVE ALOT TO SAY (AS YOU ALL KNOW), I HAVE BEEN THROUGH HELL & I'M STILL IN IT & I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH ABOUT EVERY ASPECT OF THE GOVERNMENT CHILD SUPPORT SYSTEM & ALSO EVERY ASPECT OF THE NJ "ASSISTANCE" PROGRAMS, OR LACK THEREOF, OR REALLY WHOM THEY ACTUALLY HELP. I HAVE ALSO LEARNED SO MUCH ABOUT CHARITY ORGANIZATIONS & HOW I COULD HAVE PREVENTED OUR EVICTION IF ONLY I HAD KNOWN ABOUT THESE ORGANIZATIONS SOONER & I CAN ABSOLUTELY HELP PREVENT OTHERS FROM HOMELESSNESS. UNFORTUNATELY, I'M STILL IN IT. AND UNFORTUNATELY, I'VE LEARNED, THAT ONCE YOU'RE IN IT, IT IS EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TO GET OUT OF, ESPECIALLY UNDER CERTAIN CIRCUMSTANCES & WITH NO FAMILY WILLING TO TAKE YOU IN OR HELP & WHEN YOU DON'T COME FROM MONEY & HAVE BAD CREDIT THAT ONLY GETS WORSE BY THE DAY. 

I AM ALSO GOING TO START NAMING THE JUDGES WHO DO DO NOTHING, THE COUNTLESS POLITICIANS & NEWS ORGANIZATIONS THAT HAVE NOT RESPONDED, ETC. 

SO, TUESDAY WENT LIKE THIS:

9AM- 1:00PM- NY COURT

1:00- 2:40PM- MUNICIPAL COURT

2:40- FOR MANY MORE HOURS- EMAILING & MAKING CALLS REGARDING WHAT TRANSPIRED IN BOTH COURT MATTERS.

WHAT HAPPENED IN NY COURT: ONCE AGAIN, THE NIGHT BEFORE, I SENT IN ALL OF THE EVIDENCE THAT THEY ALREADY HAVE BUT NEVER READ, REVIEW OR OPEN. I INCLUDED MORE UPDATES, BECAUSE IT JUST PILES UP AS NOTHING IS DONE. I EVEN RESENT IT THAT MORNING, BEGGING IN THE SUBJECT LINE- AS I ALWAYS DO- TO PLEASE READ IT. I CALL IN AT 9AM. I WAIT FOR A LONG TIME. I AM FINALLY ACCEPTED INTO COURT. MY EX-HUSBAND HAS AN ATTORNEY. MAGISTRATE AFRIYIE, WHO PRESIDED LAST WEEK- WHEN MY EX WAS A NO SHOW FOR THE THIRD TIME, AND WHO ISSUED THE WARRANT FOR HIS ARREST- THE FIRST ONE EVER TO BE ISSUED IN OVER FIFTEEN YEARS FOR NONPAYMENT OF SUPPORT (NEVER ISSUED FOR NO SHOWS, EITHER). THE ATTORNEY OBVIOUSLY KNEW NOTHING ABOUT WHO MY EX IS & THE TRUTH & MY PETITION & ALL OF THE COUNTLESS STORIES & EVIDENCE IN THIS CASE. HE WAS TOLD LIES BY MY EX. HE BEGINS BY SAYING THAT THIS WHOLE CASE NEEDS TO BE DISMISSED BECAUSE ***I (ME!) OPENED UP THIS CASE IN NY IN ORDER TO "DOUBLE DIP" WHEN I ALREADY HAVE A CASE IN NJ FOR CHILD SUPPORT. 100% FALSE. 'NJ CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES' SENT IT TO NY- AGAIN- AND I WAS LIVID. I BEGGED THEM NOT TO. 

I FREAKED OUT & STATED THAT. I WAS REPRIMANDED. I ASKED THE MAGISTRATE IF SHE FINALLY REVIEWED MY EVIDENCE. SHE TOLD ME- AGAIN, LIKE EVERY OTHER TIME- THAT NO, THEY DO NOT REVIEW EVIDENCE. WTF IS HAPPENING HERE.

*** REMINDER- MY EX OWES $17,000.00 IN BACK CHILD SUPPORT. 

THEN, THE ATTORNEY STATES SOMETHING TO THE EFFECT OF, 'WELL, YOUR HONOR, THERE WAS JUST A COURT MATTER & A NEW ORDER ISSUED OUT OF NJ, REGARDING THE EMANCIPATION OF THEIR SON & SPLITTING OF THE ARREARS...' (I ASKED THAT IT BASICALLY BE A 5K/12K SPLIT- 5K TO ME- BECAUSE MY SON HELPED ME SO MUCH FROM 2023-24. I DID THE MATH). HE GOES ON, 'THE NEW ORDER STATES THAT MY CLIENT ONLY HAS TO PAY $100/ WEEK NOW & IT'S AN ARREARS ONLY CASE. WE CAN'T HAVE ORDERS ISSUED IN TWO STATES THAT ARE DIFFERENT...' BLAH, BLAH, BLAH... 

BECAUSE THAT FRIGGIN NJ JUDGE (JUDGE BOGAARD) DIDN'T LET ME SPEAK & DIDN'T REVIEW ANY OF THE EVIDENCE THAT I SUBMITTED!!!!!!!!! (AND ALSO MUTED MY MIC & THEN MOCKED ME.) 

I WENT NUTS AGAIN. I WAS REPRIMANDED. ALSO, WHEN WE WERE ALL SWORN IN, WE HAVE TO STATE OUR NAME & ADDRESS. MY EX STATES THE NY ADDRESS. THE ATTORNEY WENT ON TO STATE THAT MY EX HAS CUSTODY OF HIS OTHER CHILD & THAT THE CHILD WAS PRESENT DURING THE ARREST & HOW AWFUL FOR THAT CHILD & THAT THIS IS ALL BOGUS. HE ALSO STATES THAT THE CHILD'S MOTHER DIED OF BREAST CANCER YEARS AGO. MY EX STATES THE SAME. 

OK. ALL LIES. MY EX DOES NOT HAVE CUSTODY OF HIM. MY EX'S SISTER DOES. IN MORRIS COUNTY, NJ. THE CHILD HAS GONE TO SCHOOL THERE HIS WHOLE LIFE & CURRENTLY DOES. THE CHILD'S MOTHER DID NOT DIE OF BREAST CANCER. THAT'S A NEW ONE. SHE DIED OF A DRUG OVERDOSE. THIS IS WHAT I'M DEALING WITH, PEOPLE.

I CHIME IN. REPRIMANDED AGAIN. THE ATTORNEY THEN SAYS THAT *** I (ME!) CAUSED MY EX-HUSBAND TO GET FIRED FROM HIS JOB AT PRICELESS PETS (IN JUNE 2024) & THAT THERE ARE CHARGES AGAINST ME FOR SUCH. OK. YOU ALL KNOW THIS STORY!!!!!!!!!THE MAGISTRATE HAS NO IDEA, BECAUSE ONCE AGAIN, NO JUDGE EVER REVIEWS MY EVIDENCE!!!!!!!!!!! MY NJ CASEWORKER & ALL INVOLVED AT 'NJ CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES' ARE NO HELP & DO NOTHING!!!!

I CHIME IN. "YOU MEAN THE JOB THAT HE HAD FOR FOUR MONTHS & WAS HIDING & WHILE NOT PAYING CHILD SUPPORT & GETTING PAID UNDER THE TABLE FOR CASH & THEN WHEN I GOT PICTURE PROOF & VIDEO PROOF... " IF YOU DON'T KNOW THIS STORY, READ MY PREVIOUS UPDATES. THIS IS EXHAUSTING. 

I WAS REPRIMANDED AGAIN. THEN, THE MAGISTRATE IS QUESTIONING- ME!- ABOUT THE WHOLE NJ/ NY THING. I'M THEN TOLD THAT THIS ORANGE COUNTY, NY COURT CAN ONLY DEAL WITH ***MY*** "PORTION OF THE ARREARS", WHICH IS $5,000.00. WHAT???!!!!! SO, NOW I CAN'T FIGHT FOR MY SON'S SHARE TO BE PAID AND GO TO HIM???!!!!!! THE MAGISTRATE SAID, THAT IS CORRECT!!!!! THIS IS ABSURD!!!!! THIS MAKES NO SENSE!!!! WTF!!!!!!

**** AN INTERESTING SIDE NOTE: I'VE PROVIDED TO THE COURTS, MY CASEWORKER, SHOWN IN MY PETITION & PETITION INSTAGRAM PAGE--- THE TEXTS & EMAILS FROM MY EX & HIS FIANCE (FROM THIS PAST JULY & AUGUST) STATING THAT THEY COERCED, BRAINWASHED & BRIBED MY SON, HELPED HIM TO FILE FOR EMANCIPATION & THAT HE WILLFULLY WITHHELD THE CHILD SUPPORT FOR YEARS & THAT HE HAS THE TOTAL AMOUNT & WILL GIVE IT ALL- IN CASH- TO MY SON, ONCE HE IS EMANCIPATED. IT SEEMS AS THOUGH, WHILE GETTING MY SON TO DO THIS, HE ALSO MADE IT SO THAT IT IS NOW TWO SEPARATE CHILD SUPPORT CASES & THAT IF MY SON WANTS TO EVER SEE THAT MONEY, HE NOW HAS TO TAKE MY EX-HUSBAND BACK TO COURT & FIGHT FOR IT!!!! FOR REALZ!!! THAT'S WHATS HAPPENING!!!

ALSO, AS I'VE STATED & PROVIDED TO ALL- I TRIED EVERYTHING IN MY POWER TO GET THE CHILD SUPPORT CONTINUED, SINCE MY SON IS NOW IN TRADE SCHOOL, WHICH HE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO.... ONLY TO BE TOLD LAST WEEK BY NJ CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES (MY CASEWORKER WHO KNOWS ALL OF THIS!!) THAT BECAUSE MY SON EMANCIPATED HIMSELF FROM NOT ONLY ME, BUT FINANCIALLY FROM HIS FATHER- THAT MY SON NOW HAS TO TAKE MY EX HUSBAND TO COURT TO FIGHT FOR THAT, TOO!!! (EVEN THOUGH I SUBMITTED THE LETTER FROM HIS SCHOOL- IN TIME, IN AUGUST- BEFORE HE WAS EMANCIPATED!!!!!!) WELL, SHE THEN TOLD ME LAST WEEK, THAT SHE REACHED OUT TO MY BOY, AND THAT HE DECLINES DOING THAT!!!! OFCOURSE HE DOES!!!! THIS POOR KID!!! 

I MAY BE UPSET WITH HIM FOR BREAKING MY HEART, BUT MY GOD, I WILL STILL FIGHT FOR HIM & TRY TO BE A MOTHER TO HIM & WILL NEVER STOP LOVING HIM IMMENSELY, WITH MY WHOLE BEING (UNLIKE HOW MY WRETCHED FAMILY TREATS ME & HAS LEFT ME TO ROT.... FOR WHAT? TELLING THE TRUTH. THAT'S IT). THIS IS UNBELIEVABLE!!!!!!! NO ONE ELSE WILL FIGHT FOR HIM LIKE I WILL!!!! EVERYONE INVOLVED IN HIM EMANCIPATING HIMSELF (WHICH WAS RIDICULOUS & ONLY MEANT TO HURT ME), SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF THEMSELVES!!!! MY EX-HUSBAND & HIS FAMILY & HIS FIANCE & THIS WHOLE CORRUPT SYSTEM DID THIS!!!!!!!! THIS WAS A BRILLIANT PLAN ON MY EX-HUSBAND'S PART!!! HE GOT AWAY WITH M*RD*R AGAIN!!!! HIS ATTORNEY ALSO GOES ON TO STATE THAT HIS CLIENT WASN'T EVEN AWARE OF THIS NY MATTER BECAUSE HE JUST APPEARED FOR THE NJ EMANCIPATION MATTER....OMG. 

I SAID, "YOUR HONOR, THIS COURT- INCLUDING YOU- TOLD ME THAT HE WAS SUCCESSFULLY SERVED ALL THREE TIMES!!!"

I WAS REPRIMANDED AGAIN.

I ALSO REMEMBERED LATER THAT DAY THAT I HAVE EMAIL PROOF THAT HE WAS AWARE OF NY COURT, EMAILS THAT I'VE ALREADY PROVIDED TO THE COURTS & MY CASEWORKER & POSTED ON MY PETITION INSTAGRAM PG, ETC!!! (I LATER SENT THEM AGAIN TO THE COURT.) BUT, THE JUDGES DON'T REVIEW THE EVIDENCE!!!!!! 

SO, AFTER I WAS YELLED AT AND MY MIC MUTED, SHE SAID THAT THERE WILL BE A HEARING WITH JUDGE CAMPBELL IN 30 MINUTES. I WAS AWARE THAT THIS WOULD HAPPEN & SO, WHEN I SENT MY EVIDENCE THE NIGHT BEFORE & AGAIN IN THE MORNING, I ALSO ADDRESSED JUDGE CAMPBELL IN MY SUBJECT HEADERS & FOUND HER CLERKS EMAIL ADDRESSES ONLINE & COPIED THEM. 

OK. READY? 

SAME EXACT SCENARIO WENT DOWN. SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE DOES NOT REVIEW EVIDENCE SUBMITTED. SAME EXACT SUBJECTS WERE BROUGHT UP, WITH THE SAME EXACT OUTCOMES. SAME WORDAGE.

MORE REPRIMANDING.

MY EX-HUSBAND IS NOW APPARENTLY THE VICTIM. THIS IS A SH*TSHOW!!!!!!!!! 

LONG STORY SHORT, SHE KEPT HIM IN JAIL, PUT BAIL AT $5,000.00 CASH & THEN THE BOND AMOUNTS, ETC.. SHE ADJOURNED IT FOR 10/23. MY EX IS STILL IN JAIL.

YESTERDAY AFTERNOON, I RECEIVE AN EMAIL FROM MY EX'S ATTORNEY & THE COURT WAS COPIED, FOR AN 'ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE', TRYING TO GET THE WHOLE THING DISMISSED & FOR MY EX TO BE RELEASED RIGHT AWAY. HE EVEN USED THE SAME WORDAGE AGAIN, STATING THAT I'M "DOUBLE DIPPING"!!!! I BELIEVE THAT I PROVED THAT TO BE WRONG, SIR!!!!! I LOST MY SH*T. I REPLIED & COPIED EVERYONE THAT I ALWAYS COPY NOW, THAT I'VE BEEN COPYING FOR MANY, MANY MONTHS- THE COURT, MY NJ CHILD SUPPORT CASEWORKER, NY CHILD SUPPORT, DHS- TWO LEGIT EMAIL ADDRESSES, AND ACF (A LEGIT ADDRESS). I FORWARDED EVERYONE ALL OF THE COUNTLESS EMAILS- WITH ALL EVIDENCE, ALL ATTACHMENTS, JUST TO REFRESH THEIR MEMORY, SHOW THIS NEW ATTORNEY EXACTLY WHO HIS CLIENT IS AND BEG SOMEONE TO PLEASE HELP ME!!! 

I HAVE NOW BEEN TOLD TO GET AN ATTORNEY, BY THE JUDGE, THE MAGISTRATE, AND NJ CHILD SUPPORT SERVICES. AND TO STOP SENDING EVIDENCE. SO, BECAUSE FOR OVER FIFTEEN YEARS, NO ONE DID ANYTHING, NO ONE ORDERED PAYMENTS, NO ONE ISSUED WARRANTS, NO ONE OPENED EVIDENCE, NO ONE LETS ME SPEAK, NO ONE ENFORCES COURT ORDERS, YADA, YADA, YADA....NOW, THE ONLY WAY TO GET THIS SCUMBAG TO PAY IN FULL AND PAY NOW--- IS TO GET REPRESENTATION??!!!!! ARE YOU EFFING KIDDING ME???? THERE'S PROBABLY MORE THAT I'M FORGETTING. I MIGHT HAVE TO ADD MORE LATER.

WHY CAN'T A JUDGE, ANY EFFING JUDGE, LOOK AT THE MOUNDS OF DISGUSTING EVIDENCE & STORIES, AND JUST ORDER HIM TO PAY THE TOTAL NOW & GET THIS OVER WITH??!!!! JUST TAKE HIM AT HIS WORD!!! HE HAS THE MONEY!!!!! GUYS, IF YOU'VE READ THIS FAR, AND YOU HAVEN'T SIGNED MY PETITION YET, CAN YOU PEASE SIGN IT AND SHARE IT??!!!! PLEASE!!! HONESTLY, I AM NOT THE ONLY STORY LIKE THIS!!! THIS SHOULD NOT BE HAPPENING-- BECAUSE I CAN'T HIRE A FANCY LAWYER TO HELP ME. THE SYSTEM IS NOT ABOUT THE KIDS. AT ALL. AND CAN YOU PLEASE FOLLOW MY PETITION INSTAGRAM PAGE? 

https://www.instagram.com/tanya_a_zakk?igsh=dzFjMGU5cnlxMHN5 

I'M GONNA DO A SEPARATE UPDATE IN A LITTLE BIT REGARDING THE OTHER COURT MATTER- WITH MY SISTER INLAW. I WILL ALSO ASK: PLEASE, WHILE I'M GOING THROUGH THIS, HOPEFULLY FOR NOT MUCH LONGER-- IF ANYONE CAN HELP ME, EVEN JUST TO HELP ME GET SOME NECESSITIES, PLEASE HELP! 

MY VENMO IS @Tanya-Zakk 

AND PLEASE PRAY FOR ME!!!!

THANKS SO MUCH!!!