Thank you so much for your messages of support. Nikola thank you. Glad to hear from you. For those of you who said kind words. I am touched. For the 3 ladies who I feel we're having a go at me, let me be very clear, I did not choose to send my son to this holehell places. I HAD NO CHOICE. You may say you had your son for 42 years and boy do I feel jealous and sad that that choice was taken from me. Some of my supporter here know the whole story, you 3 ladies clearly don't, it's not as simple as that. There's 3000 young adults , I know 50 parents of those 3000 with same situation. We find our selves in this position when social services and doctors decide for us, when courts decide they know more then we parents do about our sons and about autism, they just hid behind the mental health act, and we parents have no way of stopping it happening to our children, you try telling the justice for Nico and justice fir LB and more recently a good friend of mine who lost her son he died in a residential home, she thought tooth and nail to stop this bastards this beuracratics taking her son last year. A few months after the courts decided she had no rights he dies because of negligence. I fear for my son due to his heavy drugs. Two of those drugs are for epilepsia, my son has no epelepsia , yet they are giving it to him and you ask why? I ask why, no one listens, no one answeres those questions, I am sorry but if you think I give my son way because I wanted my hands free you are so wrong, you don't know me. And your coments are a tad upsetting because you ladies are not in my position , if you were you would had no choice, and we would be here talking about your kids. Still I am greatful for Al, the comments. Thank you very much. I really mean it. Thank you for those very kind words about stes foods, there there's a problem they are not allowed to help Ste with his feeding pureed food would be great if staff were allowed to help. Thank you. Xx