Our children are being exposed to harmful messages on social media, particularly through group chats where individuals can easily add others. This often leads to unwelcome online drama and arguments between groups. Victims find themselves unable to leave these group chats and are frequently readmitted, resulting in ongoing harassment. Our children are not adequately protected.

Social media platforms have age limits; for instance, apps like Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, and TikTok are intended for users aged 12 and up. However, these platforms fail to safeguard children from harm. There have been tragic incidents where children have been lured into dangerous situations using these apps. Additionally, groups can form to meet at various locations, sometimes leading to antisocial behavior.

Why are children allowed access to these apps at such a young age when it's assumed they possess the mental capacity to use them responsibly? Millions of parents around the world struggle to control the apps their children use because the age limits are too low, allowing kids to create their own accounts. These apps should require users to present identification, such as a passport, before they can download and create an account. Furthermore, there needs to be clear warnings regarding illegal or inappropriate behavior, along with a system to permanently block users from creating accounts if they violate the rules.

Group chats should be monitored for antisocial behavior, with certain keywords flagged to trigger the closure of problematic chats. Social media platforms must take greater responsibility for protecting our children's mental health and promoting a positive culture of responsible app use.

The government should run television advertisements to raise awareness, encouraging children who see their friends being bullied online to come forward. They should inform adults if their friends or family are involved in group chats that include grooming, shaming, or plans to meet in dangerous locations, which could result in harm.

This issue is particularly concerning for parents of neurodivergent children, who may be more vulnerable to bullying and grooming due to difficulties with communication and social interaction. These children are often misunderstood by their peers and may face increased conflict when their special educational needs (SEND) are not recognized. Additionally, children with ADHD may engage in risky behavior by joining such groups, seeking the dopamine rush that comes from negative attention.

Schools also need to take action by spreading awareness and addressing this growing issue. It is becoming increasingly out of control and has escalated into a national crisis.