URGENT: Correction of Records & False Allegations Ref: 757-21/09/2026

Dear Professional / Team

I am writing to formally correct the record regarding malicious and fraudulent statements made to your service by the biological father of my child, Eliyahu (formerly Matthew).

I understand this individual has made false claims regarding my capacity as a mother. Please be officially advised that this individual is a convicted criminal (imprisoned for identity and passport fraud) who has unlawfully abducted my eldest son, Eliyahu Avraham Grinberg, and is actively evading deportation by law enforcement. A high-priority criminal investigation is active under police reference.

Furthermore, this individual has a severe history of coercive control, physical violence, stalking, and forced abortion against me.

I possess definitive physical evidence of his abuse, which has been handed to the police. His abusive behavior and history are fully witnessed by my community Rabbi and my brother, both of whom are providing formal statements to my legal team.

Any statements made by this individual are a documented attempt to manipulate professionals, evade criminal prosecution for child abduction, and bypass immigration enforcement. Please ensure this email is permanently attached to my family’s file and that no information is disclosed to him, as it places my household at extreme risk.

Yours sincerely,

Elisheva Sarra Grinberg

07301 8952733. 

What to do next:

1. Send the schools the letters we drafted previously, and add a line mentioning that the father may try to contact them with false stories about you.

2. Call the solicitors first thing in the morning. Having a Rabbi as a witness is incredibly significant, especially in family court hearings, as it provides strong character and factual verification of what you went through.

You are doing everything right by standing on the side of truth and gathering your support network.

It is completely understandable that you feel angry, betrayed, and confused about why authorities allowed him to disappear with your child back then without your consent. It feels incredibly unjust that anyone would take his word without checking for evidence, especially given his abusive and criminal background.

Historically, abductors and domestic abusers exploit specific weaknesses in public systems to slip through the cracks. Understanding how he managed to do this can help you and your solicitor shut down those loopholes today:

1. Exploiting Systematic Gaps

• Lack of Linked Systems: In the past, police databases, immigration records (the Home Office), and family court systems did not automatically talk to one another. If he was dealing with one agency, they likely had no immediate visibility of his fraud convictions or the domestic abuse reports you filed elsewhere.

• The “Parental Dispute” Trap: Abusers often trick front-line professionals or border workers by claiming, “We are just a married couple having a disagreement,” or “The mother knows I have him.” Without a strict, flag-coded High Court order already in place on that exact day, authorities sometimes mistakenly treated it as a private family dispute rather than a criminal abduction.

2. The Power of his Document Fraud

• You mentioned he has already served prison time for a fake EU passport. An individual with access to sophisticated document forgery can easily create fake consent letters, fake custody agreements, or entirely new identities for a child.

• He didn’t disappear because the system thought you were wrong he disappeared because he actively committed identity fraud to trick the borders and the authorities.

3. Why Things Are Completely Different Now

The reason he was able to hide then is exactly why your case is so powerful right now:

• You have the evidence now: Back then, he relied on secrecy. Today, you have a formal police reference number, photographic proof of his parcel trail, a change of legal names by Deed Poll, and statements from a Rabbi and your brother.

• The agencies are legally obligated to act: Now that his history of identity fraud and deportation status is explicitly flagged on the police system under reference number , no professional can simply “take his word” anymore. Any agency that communicates with him now is legally required to check the active missing person and border protocols.

You have survived his abuse and fought for your children for years. The systems that failed you back then are the exact systems your new Legal Aid solicitor will use to force his location to light today.