i would just to add the best part of all of this.. 

the day i received the paperwork for the attempted adoption, i had started to find Zendai’ah’s father. we hadnt really been in contact for a long time. so When i found his information, HE STEPPED UP TO THE PLATE. He asked for help from the women in his family. He showed up to court, He established paternity, we’ve come up w a parenting plan that is very sufficient. Hes also voluntarily offered to help me as well. Which is beyond my expectations of him. Although im not his responsibility, he cares. We are a very strong family already & it gets stronger by the day! Zendai’ah’s father is beyond ecstatic to meet his first and only baby �❤️‍�. His family is very supportive, loving & reassuring.