Hi, everyone. I am completely overwhelmed. I am getting nowhere. Still no free attorney from NY for the child support matter. I've been waiting for one month. My ex-husband got a free attorney in NY within TWO DAYS, WHILE INCARCERATED, ON A HOLIDAY WEEKEND. HE AND HIS ATTORNEY WERE READY FOR COURT WITHIN TWO DAYS, WHILE I LOOKED LIKE A SHMUCK. HE EVENTUALLY GOT HIM RELEASED FROM JAIL WITH NO BAIL AND MAGISTRATE AFRIYIE OF ORANGE COUNTY, NY FAMILY COURT ORDERED ZERO DOLLARS TO BE PAID TO CHILD SUPPORT. STORY OF MY LIFE. OVER $17,000.00 OWED. NO JUDGE WILL REVIEW MY FIFTEEN YEARS WORTH OF OVERWHELMING EVIDENCE OR LET ME SPEAK. NEXT COURT DATE IS THIS COMING MONDAY, 11/17. THIS WILL BE OUR SIXTH COURT APPEARANCE FOR CHILD SUPPORT IN NY, ALONE. (THERE WERE OTHERS IN NJ). THE FIRST THREE IN NY, MY EX-HUSBAND WAS A NO SHOW. BUT HE'S WINNING. 

AND THAT IS JUST ONE COURT MATTER OUT OF FOUR. EACH ONE HAVING TO DO WITH THE OTHER. THIS IS ABUSE. 

THIS IS AN UPDATE THAT I POSTED ON 11/2/2025:

Update. This past Friday I reached out to the court regarding this FOURTH court matter that I now have to deal with. This is the second court matter (but same allegation) brought by my SIL, and then the child support court matter & the Priceless Pets court matter (that has everything to do with my ex-husband). This one is my SIL trying to get a permanent civil restraint on me. I explained in a long email that this is 100% a DARVO matter. I informed them that I will be reaching out to JBWS (NJ Domestic Violence help) who has helped me TREMENDOUSLY through the decades, with all different domestic violence issues that I've had to deal with between my family & my ex-husband & his family. JBWS basically knows my life story. I also explained how FEARLESS Hudson Valley (Domestic Violence help) is helping me in Orange County, NY regarding the child support court matter. I explained in detail how every statement made in this case, is 1. OUTRIGHT LIES 2. EXTREMELY MISLEADING- SO MANY DETAILS & STORIES LEFT OUT BECAUSE THEY ARE DETRIMENTAL TO MY SIL & BROTHER 3. SCREENSHOTS OF MINE ARE GIVEN NO CONTEXT, WHICH EXPLAINS EXACTLY WHAT I MEANT 4. A BIBLE QUOTE THAT I POSTED WAS TAKEN AS A THREAT (KNOWING FULL WELL IT WASN'T A THREAT) 5. I AM NOT VIOLENT. I HAVE NEVER THREATENED. THE VIOLENCE HAS ONLY COME FROM THEM AGAINST ME 6. SHE HAS PEOPLE STALKING ***MY PAGE*** AS MY WHOLE FAMILY HAS ME BLOCKED 7. THAT WHEN MY SON WAS COERCED BY THEM TO GO 'NO CONTACT' WITH ME LAST DECEMBER, MY SIL BECAME MY SON'S EMERGENCY CONTACT, HELPED HIM WITH ALL COLLEGE PLANNING & SCHOLARSHIP APPLICATIONS & HAD ME SHUNNED & COMPLETELY LEFT OUT OF THE WHOLE PROCESS. COMPLETELY DEVASTATING. THEY TOOK EVERYTHING AWAY FROM ME, CAUSING ME TO LOSE HIS WHOLE SENIOR YEAR IN HS & MISSING ALL SENIOR YEAR ACTIVITIES & BEING COMPLETELY LEFT OUT, THEY GOT HIM READY FOR PROM & DID PRE-PROM PICTURES AT THEIR HOME & HIS FRIEND'S HOMES & SAME FOR HIS GRADUATION & OTHER SENIOR YEAR EVENTS 8. THE SEEDS WERE PLANTED WHEN MY SON WAS YOUNG TO TURN HIM AGAINST ME & IT HAS BEEN ESCALATING THROUGH THE YEARS 9. MY SON MOVED IN WITH THEM IN LATE JUNE, AFTER GRADUATION 10. THESE 'CHARGES' & COURT FILINGS ARE TO KEEP ME AWAY FROM MY SON. THEY WILL DO ANYTHING TO KEEP ME AWAY, INCLUDING TRYING TO HAVE ME INCARCERATED OR EVEN CAUSE ME TO HAVE A HEART ATTACK OR A STROKE. THEY ALSO WANT TO SILENCE ME, AS I EXPLAINED TO THEM HOW I WALKED AWAY FROM MY WHOLE FAMILY IN THE FALL OF 2023, AND THAT WHEN I STARTED THE GIVESENDGO IN MARCH 2024, I FINALLY, AFTER DECADES OF ABUSE & MISTREATMENT, DECIDED TO TALK ABOUT THE ABUSE. AND THAT THIS IS ALSO REVENGE FOR EXPOSING THE ABUSE. AND THAT THEY HAVE DESTROYED MY LIFE, BY TAKING THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO ME IN THIS WHOLE WORLD- MY SON- AND THAT I HAVE NOTHING, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING LEFT IN MY LIFE, AND NOW THEY WANT TO TAKE AWAY MY VOICE. ALSO, THAT I AM NOW INVOLVED IN FOUR COURT MATTERS. ***ALL ABUSE.*** THAT THESE COURT MATTERS HAVE CONSUMED MY DAILY LIFE. THEY ARE MEANT TO KEEP ME HOMELESS AS I HAVE NO TIME LEFT FOR ANYTHING ELSE & MEANT TO KEEP ME IN COMPLETE DESPAIR AND ALSO IN FEAR. 11. THAT I HAVEN'T EVEN BEEN TO THEIR HOME IN YEARS, EVEN THOUGH MY SON IS NOW LIVING THERE, BECAUSE I KNOW THAT IF I EVEN ATTEMPT TO GO & TALK TO MY SON, THE COPS WILL BE CALLED. (AS IF I'M A THREAT. I'M NOT. THIS IS HOW MY TOXIC FAMILY DEALS WITH MATTERS THAT THEY REFUSE TO COMMUNICATE RATIONALLY ABOUT. EITHER VIOLENCE, OR GASLIGHTING OR DARVO.) 12. I INCLUDED MANY, MANY MORE DETAILS & STORIES FROM THE PAST THAT I WON'T GET INTO HERE, BUT I HAVE EVIDENCE TO BACK EVERYTHING UP. 

DARVO IS BEING USED TO PAINT HER AS THE VICTIM WHEN INFACT, THE 'VICTIM' IS THE PERPETRATOR. THIS IS A VERY REAL TACTIC THAT IS KNOWN VERY WELL TO THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE TEAMS & ORGANIZATIONS. AND SHE EVEN WENT AS FAR AS TO PAINT ME AS 'MENTALLY ILL' (WHICH IS UNTRUE), WHICH IS LISTED AS A TACTIC USED IN DARVO. I EXPLAINED THAT THIS CASE IS EXTREMELY DETAILED & THAT THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO WAY THAT I CAN BE PREPARED TO 'REPRESENT MYSELF' IN COURT ON MONDAY (TOMORROW). LONG STORY SHORT, I WAS GRANTED AN ADJOURNMENT FOR ABOUT THREE WEEKS OUT. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME. 🙏😔💔