I apologise for the post about Duncan's son that may have vilified him. for peoples respect, I have now deleted that post. I am autistic, and sometimes I have difficulty understanding unwritten rules about what should, and should not be said. I appreciate your support in helping me to understand some of these distinctions, which are clear to other people, but not always to me. I appreciate your empathy in politely helping me to understand if I have crossed a line, and explaining how and why." I changed the words because I didn't know the right words to say. I'm autistic so I say things that may be inappropriate that I don't think are inappropriate. if anyone can help me with a good apology. I'll be happy with some tips