Using your child to get back at their father is not motherhood, it's manipulation.

Something to share.
Something for the enablers, the ones engaging in coercion (alienation).
Something to share with those who are still in denial of the existence of this well known and documented form of child abuse. We are hearing it from more and more women and mothers.
As more often than not, fathers are  painted as abusive claiming alienation, where in reality it's the alienation that is the abuse. Right there on full display.

While not ignoring the fact there are abusive parents out there. This conversation isn't about that. We know this. We are talking about the, until recently hidden form of abuse, taken advantage of in and outside of family courts and family dynamics. Directly relating to Bill C-223's many deeply troublesome ideas.

This video was posted on https://www.facebook.com/PeopleAgainstParentalAlienation
Direct video link (its public): https://www.facebook.com/share/r/18FmRGgyWL

Video transcription: 

"You know, some women crying deadbeat, but they're the ones actually blocking the door.
And yes, sometimes it is you women who sometimes weaponize your children against their father.
Using your child to get back at their father, is not motherhood, its manipulation.
A man can be a bad romantic partner, but that does not mean he is a bad father.
And if you're withholding that child, or those children from him, and he is not a danger them or he is not abusive to them, that's not you "protecting them", that's you being selfish.
Don't raise your child on resentment, and scream "Oh empowerment!"
No, what you are doing is creating an emotionally wounded adult.

And I am not saying some dads are deadbeats, but before you call him a deadbeat, have you checked that custody agreement/court order, to make sure you're following it?
Some of you aren't even actually protecting their child or children from their father, it's really you, protecting your ego from accountability.

When you are teaching your child or children to hate their dad, you are also teaching them to hate a part of themselves. And that damage runs really deep.

So remember, if he is trying to be a present father, and you are blocking it, he is not the enemy, your pride is."