PLEASE LET THE FAMILY GRIEVE WITHOUT JUDGEMENT

Hey everyone.

Some people are starting to come after the family and make up all sorts of accusations. Also, they're stating that they should show more grief and not do certain things, etc. Although this type of thing happens a lot when a murder goes viral, it still doesn't make it right. I'm deeply saddened by videos like this, and I think that everyone needs to stop blaming the parents for something that they had nothing to do with. Shanquella's parents were not in Cabo, so they should not be blamed for what happened to her at all. Let's stick to the facts.

Secondly, not everyone grieves the same way. Some people try to be strong in public and cry behind closed doors. Others might hold back tears or deny that the death occurred, until they can no longer hold it in. And some don't show any emotion because they're blocking it out and pretending like it didn't happen. They haven't fully accepted the death yet. Moreover, others try to be strong for everyone around them and of course, there are those who cry nonstop. And those that cry randomly at every memory, etc. 

Lastly, let's not forget that in the black community, we are told to be strong Black women and to keep it together. This type of trope can affect how we present ourselves in public and how we act. 

 Basically, we all handle grief differently, and we all handle bad news and death differently. So, the judging needs to stop. Also, since her family wasn't in Cabo, the parent blaming needs to stop. On my channel, I have made it clear that parent/family slander isn't allowed. Let's focus on the Cabo6 and let the family grieve in peace.

What you can do to help, is to speak up for the family and not engage in these negative conversations. The family has been through enough, and they still haven't gotten justice yet. They're not on trial here, the Cabo6 is on trial.

Have a great day, and keep sharing the petition.

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