As a tax accountant with tax season 2022 about to begin - the idea of filing my return with my son not on it is heartbreaking.  Your tax returns are the story of your life you tell the government.  It tells them when you are born, go to college, get married, have children, get a new job, have a major illness, retire and eventually pass away.  It is the story of your household's life to someone who knows how to read them.

The idea that Jon will not be present at all on my tax story breaks my heart.  I still have hope we can get this to go viral and I'll be able to amend my taxes back to include him eventually in 2022.  

Our babies existed.  Our babies count.