We all have the right to love whomever we choose, but there are those of us who cannot be married. Why is that? The gay community needs to stand up!! We should all have the right to stand at the alter, no matter our gender, just like any other citizen of the united states. no one else should be able to dictate who any one else wishes to love, but our goverment is trying its hardest to do so. They claim marriage should be between a man and a woman, and I do not think they have any right to use that as an argument. Look at Oklahoma's divorce rate, our state is currently one of the highest in the country. They should not rule your personal life, it should be your choice, but you currently do not have the right to be married as you wish. They claim that gay marriage ruins the sanctity of marriage, they do not have their facts straight. Stand up for your right to love, stand up for your right to marry, Be heard. This is your goverment, you pay them, do not let them forget that.