BDSM is a lifestyle, we practice this at our own free will. We have every right to be on a social site like Facebook so we can learn and enjoy who we are, we should not have to hide in shame on Facebook. The BDSM pages have their ages restrictions set to 18 and up, we post no nude pics or what we call violence. We do post girls/guys in bondage and getting spankings. We enjoy and even need these acts to feel whole. Just because some don't understand it and think its violence doesn't mean we shouldn't have any rights.