Since miltary has existed, there have been gay's in the military!!!! But for fear of retrobution it has been kept quiet !!!They are just like anyone else, have normal relationships & they are there to do their duty just like a non gay person!! Are people really that ignorant to think this has been going on behind their back's & they have not been serving with gay's???Don't ask don't tell is a crock!!! They have every right to serve our country as a non gay!!!! YOUR LUCKY TO HAVE THEM ESPECIALLY IN THESE TIME'S!!!! Are you really ignorant to think they'er going to jump you???? Have they yet ????  I SAY TELL, TELL, TELL!!! Do your research!!!! Being gay is not a choice, they are born this way!!!! They will not hender the military & if someone were to have a problem with it, then they SHOULD be repromanded!!!! I am not gay,but have several friend's who are & some in the military!!!!!   GAY IS HERE TO STAY, IT'S BEEN HIDDEN TOO LONG!!!!!!!