Tell Amy Dickinson to Correct Her Rape Victim Blaming Advice Column

Ruth Fertig
Ruth Fertig
New York, NY, United StatesCreated December 2, 2009

Tell Amy Dickinson to Correct Her Rape Victim Blaming Advice Column

New York, NY, United States
Created December 2, 2009

The Issue

UPDATE: In a response to criticism from a disgusted reader (one of many) this week, Dickinson defends her original response, claiming while she was "too harsh," she was not victim-blaming. Not only does she misconstrue the failures of her original response, Dickinson still refers to what happened to the victim as having sex -- completely missing the point that "being raped" is not the same as "having sex." She continues to focus on the need for the victim to keep herself safe, rather than pointing out that rape is always the perpetrator's fault, never the victim's.

In a November 27 column, syndicated "Ask Amy" columnist Amy Dickinson published insensitive, irresponsible, and factually incorrect advice to someone who wrote in asking whether she had been raped. "Victim? in Virginia" wrote that she had gotten drunk at a frat party and went to a guy's room, where he had sex with her despite promising that he wouldn't. Dickinson informed "Victim? in Virginia" that she was a victim of her own awful judgment. She equated getting drunk at a frat party with asking to be sexually assaulted. She never said that what the guy did was wrong, and she qualified his behavior, saying that if he was drunk his judgment was impaired. Dickinson's "advice" sends the message that victims of sexual assault are the ones responsible for it, rather than the perpetrators.

This petition demands that Amy Dickinson not only apologize for her bad advice, but also that she correct it -- properly -- in her next column. It also copies her editors at the Tribune, who should make their position against victim blaming clear, if she won't.

 

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Ruth FertigPetition StarterRuth Fertig is a documentary producer and director based in New York City. She has worked with survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault as a peer counselor, advocate and shelter volunteer. You can read about her films at <a href="http://www.fertigovafilms.com">www.fertigovafilms.com</a> and follow her on twitter @fertigovafilms.
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The Issue

UPDATE: In a response to criticism from a disgusted reader (one of many) this week, Dickinson defends her original response, claiming while she was "too harsh," she was not victim-blaming. Not only does she misconstrue the failures of her original response, Dickinson still refers to what happened to the victim as having sex -- completely missing the point that "being raped" is not the same as "having sex." She continues to focus on the need for the victim to keep herself safe, rather than pointing out that rape is always the perpetrator's fault, never the victim's.

In a November 27 column, syndicated "Ask Amy" columnist Amy Dickinson published insensitive, irresponsible, and factually incorrect advice to someone who wrote in asking whether she had been raped. "Victim? in Virginia" wrote that she had gotten drunk at a frat party and went to a guy's room, where he had sex with her despite promising that he wouldn't. Dickinson informed "Victim? in Virginia" that she was a victim of her own awful judgment. She equated getting drunk at a frat party with asking to be sexually assaulted. She never said that what the guy did was wrong, and she qualified his behavior, saying that if he was drunk his judgment was impaired. Dickinson's "advice" sends the message that victims of sexual assault are the ones responsible for it, rather than the perpetrators.

This petition demands that Amy Dickinson not only apologize for her bad advice, but also that she correct it -- properly -- in her next column. It also copies her editors at the Tribune, who should make their position against victim blaming clear, if she won't.

 

avatar of the starter
Ruth FertigPetition StarterRuth Fertig is a documentary producer and director based in New York City. She has worked with survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault as a peer counselor, advocate and shelter volunteer. You can read about her films at <a href="http://www.fertigovafilms.com">www.fertigovafilms.com</a> and follow her on twitter @fertigovafilms.

The Decision Makers

Amy Dickinson
Amy Dickinson
Chicago Tribune
Gerould Kern
Gerould Kern
Editor, Chicago Tribune
Geoff Brown
Geoff Brown
Associate Managing Editor, Features, Chicago Tribune

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Petition created on December 2, 2009