Petition to Utah State House
PASS Senate Bill 54: Promotion of Premarital Education and Counseling
This bill gives couples an incentive to take premarital education classes. Couples will not only get a $20 discount on their marriage license, but they will also be better prepared for the marriage they enter into. We want strong, happy, healthy, and lasting marriages in our communities and state. Passing this legislation will aid in working toward that important ideal and goal. Please join us in signing this petition. For more information, read below: Senate Sponsor: Sen. Allen Christensen House Sponsor: Rep. Becky Edwards Bill Summary: Bill will encourage a greater proportion of Utah couples to participate in formal premarital education by providing them a $20 discount on their marriage license when they do so. The bill will be implemented only when counties convert to an online marriage application system, which will save counties significant expense and allow for a 2-tier- fee system. (Utah Co. online March 2018; Weber, Washington, Iron Counties working; others will follow quickly or risk losing revenue.) Counties have authority to raise marriage license fees to compensate for the loss of revenue if the savings from online applications do not cover lost revenue. Any rises would likely be $5-20. (Implementing an online application process will result in significant savings.) Those couples who do not chose to participate in premarital education will pay the set fee for their marriage license; they do not get a $20 discount. $20 from marriage license fees of those who do not participate in premarital education will go to support marriage strengthening educational services across the state managed by the Utah Marriage Commission (Department of Human Services). (Any generated funds in excess of $400,000 will be returned to the State General Fund.) Couples may take a class from either a secular or a religious provider; they also can take a high-quality online program with a free voucher from the Utah Marriage Commission. Premarital education must be at least 6 hours in length; premarital counseling (with a state-licensed mental health practitioner) must be at least 3 hours in length. Premarital education or premarital counseling must include information on: (a) important factors associated with strong, healthy marriages; (b) commitment in marriage; and (c) effective communication and problem-solving skills, including avoiding violence and abuse in the relationship. Premarital education must be taken at least 14 days prior to the marriage license date and not more than 1 year before that date. (Ideally, engaged couples will participate together in premarital education but they may take it separately.) Utah Marriage Commission will regularly publicize information on premarital education. (The Commission’s short-term goal is to raise participation rates from about 33% to 50%.) Note: $10 of the marriage license fee currently goes to a state account for the Children’s Legal Defense (services for families who have experienced domestic violence). (Applicants also may elect to donate an additional $10 to fund shelters for victims of domestic abuse). Rationale and Benefits: Anecdotal evidence from two states (MN, OK) that adopted a similar policy estimates that it increases participation in premarital education by 20%. Research demonstrates that participation in premarital education can increase marital quality and reduce divorce rates in the high-risk early years of marriage. Fewer divorces will protect more children from the potential harmful consequences of unhealthy marriages and divorce. Most divorces come from marriages that began with significant problems. Premarital education will provide important insights and skills for all couples and especially for these higher-risk couples. One economist estimates that family breakdown in Utah costs Utah taxpayers $276 million a year. Another Utah scholar conservatively estimated the public cost of divorce in Utah to be more than $18,000 per divorce. (This does not include the personal costs.) One scholar estimates that this policy change could reduce the number of divorces by 500 a year, producing an estimated savings of $9 million over 5 years to Utah taxpayers. (There are about 25,000 marriages and 10,000 divorces a year in Utah. Half of Utahdivorces involve minor children.) 9 states have passed similar legislation (FL, GA, MD, MN, OK, SC, TN, TX, WV). The Utah Marriage Commission, which coordinates and promotes marriage and relationship strengthening educational services in Utah, currently is funded on a year-to-year basis by the legislature (recently at $300,000 = $150,000 from General Fund and $150,000 from federal TANF funds). This policy would provide a steadier source of funding for these services and diminish the need for funding from the general fund. Moreover, federal TANF funding is unstable. Divorcing parents in Utah are required to take a class about the effects of divorce and effective co-parenting before divorcing and pay $50-65 for this class. Logically, it makes sense to provide preventive classes at no charge – think of paying for ambulances at the bottom of the cliff or building fences at the top of the cliff. All Utah married couples, regardless of whether they participated in premarital education, have free ongoing access to educational services to strengthen their relationships because of the efforts of the Utah Marriage Commission. For the first time, marriage license fees would be used directly to support these free services.
Petition to Genesis Almonte
Domestic Violence, Department of Domestic Violence create an app for 911 emergency DV
I was in a domestic violence relationship where my kids witnessed and went through violence as well. I believe not a lot of people can get to the police because of the situation they are in. Recently I tried calling 911 from my phone and no one came to help me and there was another situation where I almost lost my conscious at the time of the incident and my daughter got hurt from everything that happened. I would like for the the city of NY and within the rest of the United States to create a FREE App where instead of calling the 911 operator or the Domestic hotline, victims can be able to give their information through an app so it can at least save victims from getting physically hurt especially children. Children do not need to witness violence neither go through it as well!!!!
Petition to US President, Barack Obama
Want a special day for Siblings? Sign below petition so our President knows.
Siblings Day (April 10) follows the spirit of Mothers Day and Fathers Day, a great American tradition and highly respected celebration of family values and beliefs. All siblings should also be appreciated, honored and celebrated each year and have a day to call their own. We need 200,000 signatures in order to begin this process. Do it now!! Sign our petition urging our President to sign a Proclamation to create a NATIONAL SIBLINGS DAY to be celebrated every year on April 10th. This year could be a great year for Siblings Day,and we need your help for this commemorative day to become a reality. Please forward this petition to all your brothers and sisters, friends and relatives. Created: March, 2016 Issues: Family Signatures needed to reach goal of 200,000 OFCOURSE WE WELCOME MORE * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * MORE INFORMATION HERE Mothers Day was founded by Anna Jarvis of Philadelphia, PA in 1907 and Fathers Day founded by Mrs. John Dodd of Spokane, WA in 1910. Almost one hundred ten (110) years have gone by without honoring our siblings! Claudia Evart, a native New Yorker, after losing both her only siblings, felt inspired to create Siblings Day Foundation, a 501 (c) (3) publicly supported volunteer organization. See our website, www.siblingsday.org for information about past work to get National Siblings Day established. Beginning April 10, 2015, Siblings Day was #1 trending topic on social media for two consecutive days. Worldwide media outlets published and posted stories about Siblings Day which included blogs and TV and radio broadcasts. There was also an overwhelming response from the public, celebrities and politicians which lead to Siblings Day going viral and trending on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and YouTube and more recently on Google+ and Tumblr!. Over the years, we have been working continually to spread the idea of Siblings Day and have been recognized by three past US Presidents (Clinton, 2000), (Bush, 2008) and Obama, (2016) and six cabinet members. We have also received gubernatorial proclamations from 49 states and recognition from many other politicians including Senator Edward M. Kennedy, Congresswoman Carolyn B. Maloney, NY Mayors; Manhattan borough President; celebrities such as Oprah Winfrey, Olsen sisters, Beyonce, Kardashians, Cindy Crawford; cultural institutions including children's museums and zoos; universities and colleges, and more importantly America's siblings. In furtherance of establishing this day, we have been involved in the creation of UN resolution for Siblings Day with the help of UN Estonian Ambassador, Sven Jurgenson and the President from the Republic of Estonia and look forward to discussions with other countries.