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Allow same-sex couples to be buried together
  • Petitioned Dept. of Veterans Affairs

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Dept. of Veterans Affairs

Allow same-sex couples to be buried together

    1. Sponsored by

      Oregon United for Marriage

Veterans like Lt. Col. Linda Campbell devote their lives to serving their country and keeping our communities safe. But when her partner Nancy passed away just before Christmas last year, Linda wasn’t able to bury Nancy in the Willamette National Cemetery – as other veterans are able to do for their spouses – because the federal government did not recognize their relationship.

Same-sex couples deserve to have their loving and committed relationships treated equally under the law. But the National Cemetery Administration still says same-sex partners – even married couples, like Linda and Nancy – are ineligible for burial in a national cemetery. Secretary of Veterans Affairs Eric Shinseki has the authority to approve waivers to that rule as he sees fit.

By enduring a lengthy and uncertain process, Linda succeeded in getting a waiver and cleared the way for Nancy to be buried at Willamette National Cemetery. But it was the first time the Department of Veterans Affairs had allowed a same-sex partner to be buried in a national cemetery—and it took the leadership of U.S. Senator Jeff Merkley and Oregon Labor Commissioner Brad Avakian to make it happen. It is unacceptable to subject grieving veterans like Linda to a lengthy waiver process to be buried next to the person they love.

Help ensure no other veterans have to experience Linda’s struggle. Sign the petition to tell the Department of Veterans Affairs that loving and committed same-sex partners should be allowed to be buried next to each other in national cemeteries.

Recent signatures


    1. Reached 7,000 signatures


    Reasons for signing

    • Sheena Wheeler CLARKALE, AZ
      • 11 months ago

      Why isn't it important to everyone?

    • Karen Wang SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA
      • about 1 year ago

      Love is love, what can you say

    • Cheyenne Posey IRVING, TX
      • about 1 year ago

      Regardless of someone's stance on marriage equality or LGBT issues, this is wrong. These people serve a country that doesn't even grant them the same rights as everyone else, and yet, they can't even die knowing they'll be buried by the one they love? And their partners live during that painful time after their loved one has passed away with the pain emphasized by this denial of closure, consolation, and comfort? This is the perfect representation of throwing salt in the wounds. This is sick, and it needs to end now. The change is in our hands; We just need to make it happen.

    • Craig Noblett SAN FRANCISCO, CA
      • over 1 year ago

      Human decency and consideration for couple wishing to be buried together

    • Benjamin Kroeger OWATONNA, MN
      • over 1 year ago

      Honor her military service by respecting her wishes! Is this really that much to ask?


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