I am a Victim of Domestic Violence by a military service member who has repetitively committed physical and emotional abuse against me. He denies any allegations despite of proof (pictures, messages). He encouraged another woman to commit suicide and used fear tactics against me (by kicking in doors and threatening to kill me) while using the military system to his favor (Family Advocacy Program). He instrumentalized my son whom he knew had a history of suicidal depression against me and contributed to his suicide. I told him not to involve my son. He did anyways and my son had cut off any contact with me previously. Due to the lack of financial means, he cut me off and I was unemployed for a while I was not able to find a lawyer to represent my case properly. There is a systematic system failure that put military spouses especially foreign spouses in losing end while the perpretrators get away (buddy system and the military police looking away).