(Maybe it's not my business) however I'm sick to death of seeing videos or photos of the actor looking very uncomfortable or upset when fans are forcing or chasing him or even upset if his with a woman! 

Look I like eddie/joseph too but this is not okay; Actors are human beings who have the right to a life and privacy outside of fame stop harassing him outside his hotel whether his with a woman or not is nothing to do with you fangirls, his not going to date a fangirl especially one who behaves that way,  just be respectful and ask for a photo at the right moment or got to a con  and blur out the background instead of giving his location about