We as parents and grandparents, but sometimes our children go off in the work direction, and then they try to use the child as a pawn. We raise our grandchildren and the the older children, get mad at us, and they won't let us see our grandchildren. I raised my granddaughter until almost three, and my son is listen to his strange 30 year old married girl friend. He just turned 22, in May. We need the laws in the state of Florida changed, so we can see our grandchildren.