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In 2010, President Barack Obama directed all hospitals receiving federal funds to honor the medical decisions of family members for their loved ones in the hospital -- including same-sex couples. Like any other couple, same-sex partners desire to comfort their loved ones during sickness and health. This crucial change of policy came about because one of our nation’s most appalling acts of discrimination when a woman was denied access to her partner’s deathbed in Miami, FL.

However, that directive has not been enough. Just this week, Roger Goley was abruptly taken away from his partner’s room in a Missouri hospital, despite the fact that he has power of attorney for his partner. President Obama said his directive should "guarantee that all patients' advance directives, such as durable powers of attorney and health care proxies, are respected," and that designated persons should be able to "make informed decisions regarding patients' care."

This is not the first time that same-sex couples have been denied the dignity to be together with their partners during the most difficult moments of their lives. We ask for the Secretary of HHS, Kathleen Sebelius, to undertake a full investigation of this incident, to hold the hospital accountable if found guilty, and to put more permanency behind President Obama's directive to ensure that this situation never happens again.

There is also a petition calling on the hospital to apologize (here) and calling on the Obama Administration to pull funding from the hospital (here).

Letter to
Secretary of Health and Human Services Kathleen Sebelius
In the most vulnerable and emotional times of our lives -- at the hospital when caring for loved ones -- Americans shouldn't have the added stress of uncertainty about whether we will be deemed "worthy" of making medical decisions for same-sex partners.

Investigate the incident of Roger Gorley's expulsion from Research Medical Center in Kansas City, hold the hospital accountable if wrongdoing is found, and ensure that this type of discrimination never EVER happens again in the United States.

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