“The test of courage comes when we are in the minority. The test of tolerance comes when we are in the majority.”
“A lot of people are afraid to tell the truth, to say no. That’s where toughness comes into play. Toughness is not being a bully. It’s having backbone.”
“Unless and until our society recognizes cyber bullying for what it is, the suffering of thousands of silent victims will continue.”
“Cyber bullies can hide behind a mask of anonymity online and do not need direct physical access to their victims to do unimaginable harm.”
Bullying and cyberbullying are the reason for many suicides. Bullies are always unpunished. Two female friends were bullied to death in the age of 13 and 14 years. I was bullied at school at the age of 10 until the age of 16 and at the workplace for some years and female friends and I were cyberbullied on the internet . Many friends of mine are leaving the schools, the reason was brutal bullying. My son must change his school at the age of 16 years,the reason was bullying of teachers and classmates. That must banned worldwide with hard laws and punishment for bullies and with help centres for victims.
Workplace bullying: a global overview:
Think about sexual harassment. It's not done. And yet until not that long ago it was something that was done flagrantly – and constantly - with a wink and a nod. It still happens, but less, and public perception has changed.
Yet in the United States, workplace bullying has been found to be four times more prevalent than sexual harassment.
It's not just the United States that has a problem. At the Work, Stress, and Health 2011 conference, bullying expert Staale Einarsen of Norway described the workplace bullying field as "exploding." And in Denmark, an article in the Copenhagen Post online in March 2010 quoted the Minister of Employment as stating that workplace bullying had become such a huge problem across the country that a special system needed to be set up to tackle it.
In general terms, bullying describes a wide variety of negative workplace behaviors including verbal threats, personal attacks, humiliation, innuendo, and deliberate isolation of a colleague. Separate incidents may be relatively innocuous but are often sustained or persistent in character, with a cumulative negative effect.
Workplace bullying has been identified as one of the major contemporary challenges for occupational health and safety and linked to other emerging risks such as work-related stress and violence. These hazards are often termed psychosocial risks.
Psychosocial factors such as bullying are now being generally acknowledged as global issues, affecting all countries, professions, and workers. A recent Monster Global Poll bears this out. The poll, run from May 1-14, 2011, surveyed workers worldwide, and posed the question, "Have you ever been bullied at work?"
The 16, 517 responses received indicated the following: 64% answered that they had been bullied, either physically hurt, driven to tears, or had their work performance affected; 36% replied that this had never happened to them; and 16% answered that they had seen it happen to others. An astounding 83% of European respondents reported that they had been physically or emotionally bullied, while the percentages were 65% in the Americas, and 55% in Asia.
In many countries, new legislation has been coming into force or new provisions have been incorporated into existing legislation to protect workers from bullying. Canada, Australia, and nine European countries have enacted anti-bullying laws, including Sweden, France, and Denmark. Recently, a new Serbian law prohibiting workplace bullying became effective and, according to the Federation of European Employers, gave rise to over 400 court applications – in only the first month of its coming into force.
Other countries have opted for non-regulatory instruments, such as codes of practice and provisions in collective bargaining agreements.
Research worldwide has also found that bullying, an internal occurrence undertaken by manager and/or co-workers, leads to more workers leaving their job than violence, which is typically inflicted by sources external to a company.
Bullying and Suicide
There is a strong link between bullying and suicide, as suggested by recent bullying-related suicides in the US and other countries. Parents, teachers, and students learn the dangers of bullying and help students who may be at risk of committing suicide. In recent years, a series of bullying-related suicides in the US and across the globe have drawn attention to the connection between bullying and suicide. Though too many adults still see bullying as "just part of being a kid," it is a serious problem that leads to many negative effects for victims, including suicide. Many people may not realize that there is also a link between being a bully and committing suicide.
The statistics on bullying and suicide are alarming:
Suicide is the third leading cause of death among young people, resulting in about 4,400 deaths per year, according to the CDC. For every suicide among young people, there are at least 100 suicide attempts. Over 14 percent of high school students have considered suicide, and almost 7 percent have attempted it.
Bully victims are between 2 to 9 times more likely to consider suicide than non-victims, according to studies by Yale University
A study in Britain found that at least half of suicides among young people are related to bullying
10 to 14 year old girls may be at even higher risk for suicide, according to international studies.
My most personal case that shows how common and vicious bullying is:
Our son was the victim of extremely malicious school mobbing. The offenders: classmates, the rectors, the class teacher and a subject teacher (evil buggers and bloody bitches). In all cases, nothing was done, on the contrary, the victims were accused, attacked, slandered. In my circle of acquaintances, almost all women and girls are victims of school-bullying and also victims of mobbing and sexual harassment in the workplace. I am myself a survivor of massive mobbing, bossing and sexual harassment in the workplace. These are not isolated cases, as is always told, that is the reality for most of us and that is a shame, Germany is a bully country, as my friends from abroad say.
Particularly bad cases occur around the world in school bullying. Many cases result in depression, dropping out of school, and suicide.
At his first High School in Stuttgart-Neugereut my son was terrorized by both headmasters, the class teachers and the majority of the male, aggressive and criminal classmates and also their parents who were bad bullies too. There was damage to property, evil slandering on the whole family, telephone terror, beatings attacks, death threats, school and examination material and books being destroyed, thefts, telephone terrorism, defamation and physical attacks on him, his friends and even my husband. The bullying criminals in this case were: the first principal Mr. Rolf Hagen, his successor Mr. Ralph Röhrig and his deputy Mrs. Sabine Klass, the class teachers Mr. Klaus Barthel and Mrs. Carmen Weidler, formerly Schmid, the classmates (the leading bullies and idiots) Lennart Löscher, Lukas Schmidt, Behar Hasanaj, Oleksandr Lapidus, Kevin Westenhöfer, Marco Schwarz, Robin Rück, Philipp Reckerth, Marco Seifert, Fabian Schorer.
I can only advise you not to argue with the criminals in such cases and to remove your child from school as quickly as possible. Several attempts to change schools failed because my husband and grandparents were believing a long time the lies of the class teachers and the principal bout the bullying. For a change of school it would have needed my husband's signature, which was missing in the case, until shortly before the exam, when the incidents became more and more life-threatening, my son moved to another school.
It was actually clear at that time to my husband and grand parents that something at this shit school was going extremely dangerous for my son and they took him to school and picked him up when possible. If, for example,, they were seen by Ms. Klass doing it (I often had the feeling that this bitch was actually lying in wait for my parents and my husband), Ms. Klass said that the worries were completely unfounded, everything was fine. Although my son was constantly threatened and robbed at school and on the way to school and his belongings were stolen. I mean, what kind of teacher and rector representative you are when you lie so outrageously. And how utterly stupid it is for grandparents and a father to abandon a child, and later a teenager, in such a situation. You really must have to have straw in your brain here, no doubt about it!
Of course, all of my son's friends were also labeled as liars and troublemakers because they reported the attacks to the school and a friend also testified to the police as a witness.
In the parallel class, my son had friends who even wanted to do exam projects with him, but Ms. Klass was against a change in this class because that would not be psychologically correct. The end of the story was that my son had to end up doing all the exam projects by himself because nobody in the class wanted to work with him. That's right psychologically, isn't it ... So this woman is so stupid that it hurts.
I kept describing everything to the state education authority, but these idiots said it was normal everyday school life. I just don't believe it, these are clearly criminal acts and they tell such nonsense!
Even with the local police there was only one complaint of theft in our house when two bullies broke in, locked my son in a room and then cleared everything out. After changing schools, we learned that the bullying principal had friends within this police force. The state education authority also presented a pathetic picture, saying that we had to do everything well with the school and that a change of school was not the solution. Yes, it is the only solution, dear idiots, because if the school supports a criminal system, according to the motto, there is no bullying at our school, only students and parents who cannot adapt, then goddamn it is the only way for the fastest change of school.
My son was one of many victims at this diabolical school and I hope that at some point the perpetrators in the school service will be stopped. Believe it or not, that principal makes still his mischief at this school.
My son successfully passed his exams at another school and he was also the best at the academy and in vocational training and is now working very successfully and well paid in an IT profession. But how much suffering we could all have saved ourselves if he had been able to change schools sooner, right?
Just don't believe the lies of the bullies, especially the school management and the teachers, they are mostly the worst bullies, like in this case. Here Mr. Röhrig and Mrs. Sabine Klass and Mr. Barthel let the bullies come to their office (Before the final escalation at this bullying school! ), what the school bullies knew against my son and the bullies were really happy to be able to spread their lies here with impunity. I think that was a very happy day for all bullies at this school, the bullying prinicipal, teachers and students. That then led to my son's leave before the exam or would you still want to be in a school every day with criminals?
After that, my son had no more problems. In his last academy he was very popular because he was the best one to help everyone with their technical work and has many friends from that time until today.
Incidentally, I heard that Mr Röhrig's deputy, Ms. Sabine Klass, a really scheming and devious liar is now at the Geschwister-Scholl-Realschule in Winnenden, where a school rampage took place a few years ago. Congratulations, this school couldn't have found a better psychopath!? Have there ever been suicides at this school, that I would just be interested? Because it was Ms. Klass who, after years of efforts to change schools, even a change to the much more social parallel class, where my son had friends, constantly torpedoed by telling, for example, mainly female other headmasters of by me contacte schools or the grand parents and my husband, that my son was overly sensitive and difficult, there was no bullying at all So that I was always told by other schools that it would be better if my son stayed at the school and let Ms. Klass support him. But this bitch did not support him, on the contrary. It is sad that such people remain in the civil service with high salaries and pensions with impunity in the school service and destroy young people's lives and children's souls for decades. It is absolutely pathetic that the State Education Authority has dismissed my longstanding complaints here too, the regret at the end of the bullying of this school of only one female contact person there is of no use if the perpetrators are always allowed to go on with terror and bullying! That means supporting a criminal system.
Of course, every bullying has its beginning. And it all started when we moved from Esslingen to Stuttgart. Our son was in good hands in the first church kindergarten and had many friends. But that changed quickly when he came here. Because the neighbors (the family Knisel/Titze/Offterdinger)Ms. Gisela Knisel and Ms. Daniela Titze (evil bitches), from whom we bought the property and built the largest and most beautiful house on site, immediately ran into the local kindergarten and viciously slandered us all, as we later learned from other mothers. Ms. Knisel and Ms. Titze are known here to this day as vicious gossips and scheming lousy subjects. They bullied my son and all of our visitors with children for many years. Her attacks were so bad that my son's friends, and even my female best friends, only came to visit through the garden entrance. It is of course not a hit when a Ms. Titze constantly shouts from the balcony that we are rats, have nothing to say and should finally disappear, and just as little when Ms. Titze and Ms. Knisel talk to all the visitors that they and their children shouldn't visit us, why they would be friends with us, we would be Pack. Oh yes, Pack thinks they know what Pack is. In this case it doesn't look like it or ..
Ms. Knisel also incited female tenants against us who no longer wanted to pay their rent and celebrated loudly with them on her terrace, for example it was the case with the rental nomad Roswitha Rueff and the psychopathic kindergarten teacher and her little son abusing tenant Bettina Zink. Both were really antisocial sluts of the worst kind. And both women had children in the age of 5 and 15 years, two nice boys, the poor children can only be said. We were happy when these two bullies moved out and we never had tenants like them again and understood very well why they had literally flown out of the previous apartments.
I can also congratulate the poor Croatian electrician who built Ms. Martina Offterdinger a house in Croatia and lets her live there. Because she has not distinguished herself through social engagement either, but like the rest of her whole great family Knisel / Titze / Offterdinger through the opposite. My son was constantly injured during the alleged games with the older Offterdinger boys. Once in the evening before a vacation in the Allgäu, Lars and Marcel Offterdinger deliberately knocked him over with their bikes. Frau Offterdinger insulted us as ass faces that should finally get out of the way, no sympathy for my crying and bleeding son. After the first aid we drove to the Allgäu anyway and then went to the doctor with my son, thank God the injuries were light, but the bleeding was heavy. The doctor in the Allgäu said, because my son was only 5 years old at that time, that we should move away as soon as possible. I heard that from many mothers in the area, all of whom were bullied away without exception, most of them only had living a few months here, so I found out on the parish square that there was a meeting place for mothers and children. Without the Knisel & Co. family, the bullying would probably have been less likely or less severe. Their constant agitation against the alleged Poland pack (my family) has triggered everything. And there you see how stupid these people are, because my family is not Polish, we are German through and through and our complete family tree can be traced back to the Middle Ages. But everything is fine with stupid racists and psychopaths!
Many visitors said we have neighbors where we should be scared. Right! Even in a good neighborhood there are psychopaths and not all are male! The grandchildren of Mrs. Knisel, Lars and Macel Offterdinger were even worse. They pretended to be friends of my son, literally besieged us, scared off his friends with threats, and when they visited, there were constant complaints from other people or property damage and theft from us. Once they threw stones from our garden at passing cars, another time they stole all of my son's Pokemon cards, and after that another time they pushed him down the stairs for fun. My husband always let them in, and I always tried to get rid of those awful children so that my son's real friends would have a chance to get into the house at all. As a result, my son was bullied by the later bullies, especially Lennart Löscher, and terrorized by the kindergarten teachers, the head of this Kindergarten until now was Ms. Monika Wirth-Able and her even worse Greek representative (real female assholes). His shoes and things were thrown in the toilet or doused with paint, he was jostled and laughed by the bullying childs and the Kindergarten women. The head of the kindergarten Mrs. Wirth-Able blamed him, the weakest and smallest child in this Kindergarten, and looked away at everything, while her Greek representative yelled at him, tore his pants and suspenders. Complaints at the youth welfare office and discussions yielded absolutely nothing.
We had to take him out of kindergarten as quickly as possible and everything was going very well again in the new church kindergarten. He was so popular there that he later completed his school internship there with the best marks and it was pointed out that he was particularly good at dealing with the small children and had great social skills. Later he made a second intership at a town office and here he got the best testimony too. How does that fit together with the fact that the bullying school and the bullying principal attacked us years later that my son and we have no social behavior and are to blame for everything?, While my son was reporting sick for bullying and physical attacks at the school (the last time by a mob of 20 people and he was the youngest and most little student), the police who broke into our house and searched our house (That was the intrigue of the bullies, before they had threatened my son that he would not take an exam at this school, before that they would put him down for all time !) because Mr. Röhrig, Mr. Barthel, Lennart Löscher, Fabian Schorer (an alleged friend of my son, it is no longer possible to be more false or lying, because at this time until now he was the secret best friend and spy of Lennart Löscher) and the other bullies,described opposite the police my son as a dangerous person and gun fool (he was just 16 and was very small and skinny for his age ) like my husband, an alleged hunter (a master painter who has many customers everywhere, especially in Neugereut, and a very good reputation as a craftsman and we never have weapons in our house, never, never!)? When we tried to report something, the police did not take any charges except, only in all the time for one attack and one serious theft in our house. But they were quick after the defamation of the school there, found nothing and did not even apologize. What a country where something like this is possible? What losers are working at the police!!!
That was the revenge of the school management because we wanted to change schools before the exam and had already found a school here. Two female headmistresses of to other schools believed the lies of Ms. Klass and said to me they would not accept my son at their schools because of that what Ms. Klass told them, we should come to an agreement with the school. If these women had not been so stupid, otherwise everything might not have happened. We found out that from the headmaster of another school, this kind old gentleman who wanted to take my son in immediately. However, after the police operation, my son no longer felt able to take any exam, the shock at this malevolence was too great.
We saw many examples of how the school management handled bullying and criminal offenses. For example, when the bully Marco Seifert broke into our house with an older bully while we were away, locked my son and then cleared out and stole everything he could need together with the other young person. His brother, a really good boy, brought the stolen things back and the other perpetrator made a perpetrator-victim compensation through the youth welfare office, but Marco Seifert and his mother showed no understanding, on the contrary. Marco Seifert was celebrated as a hero in the class because he showed it to the Polish face, my son. Because of our surname, all bullies referred to us as Polish pigs. Marco Seifert's mother called me and shouted into the phone that I was a criminal because our son reported the theft and that we should finally leave. Now you know where the criminal energy of child bullies comes from.
At that time, the asocial asshole Kevin Westenhöfer also had to make himself popular with Lennart Löscher by ambushing my son with other friends, if he dared to show up at confirmation classes, they would make sure that he was beaten into a disabled person and his Polish face never more smiles. I took that seriously and didn't let him go to class, those responsible for the Religion classes didn't want to comment on it, damn Christian assholes, but church is as mendacious as it is in politics, right?
At the same time I had to take my son out of the gymnastics club, there were also attacks here, because unfortunately the Löscher gang was also in the gymnastics club and on the very first day they threatened to smash his face and toss his sneakers in the toilet. The gym teacher said there was nothing she could do, my son couldn't stay in the gymnastics club, that was too dangerous. Yes, like everyone else, this woman had a bale of straw in her brain, violent criminals don't belong in the gymnastics club, normal people do, right?
And my husband also got a taste. When we came back on the tram together with a friend of my son's, the anti-social bastard Kevin Westenhöfer and other boys harassed us on the tram. As if that wasn't enough, he hit my husband's legs from behind with his bike, when we were leaving the tram and drove off laughing. In such case you have to go to the police, no, my husband was too cowardly. My son's friend then said that this harassment also took place on the school bus every day and that he and my son always took a different bus. Two other friends, who also defended my son on the school bus and who repeatedly spoke out as witnesses of attacks against the school, were bullied away. One without an exam, the other went to another school. Yes, there is nothing like a real piste pig as a school principal like Mr. Röhrig, that is a bullies paradise in such a school!
But it gets even better. Mr. Barthel, the supposedly nice teacher and great family man, was seen by the bully Behar Hasanaj, then still a minor, in the flat rate brothel Fellbach Pussy Club and was then likely to be blackmailed. He lied to his wife, a teacher, that he would stand up for my son. What kind of lying loser? The opposite was true, absolutely. In addition, the Pussy Club was closed for human trafficking and the perpetrators were convicted. So what are a teacher and an underage student doing there, only perverts go to such a brothel. That didn't surprise me, not with the two anti-social elements! In the last two years I turned to an exam preparation office, where teachers supported the students and I had all projects and class work examined here by other High School teachers and it quickly became apparent that 1-2 grades were always rated worse. A teacher called the school several times and complained about it, Mr. Röhrig and Mr. Barthel, the mega bully pigs, rated my son always particularly badly.
When a mob of 20 students, led by the much taller Philipp Reckerth and the strong Oleksandr Lapidus, attacked my son with a hoot, put a paper hat on him in class, threatened him with scissors and threw him off his chair, it became clear that the school was going to the worsest kind of bullying. The principal thought: Better to abandon victims of bullying than to stand up against a horde of bullies. Because when my son resisted, the rector Mr. Röhrig complained in writing and by phone to my husband that my son was not normal. I think anyone who writes letters like this needs to go to a psychiatric hospital very urgently.
The year before, Mrs. Weidler was in top form when she was substituting for gym classes. She harassed my son along with the bullies like that, made him run back and forth unnecessarily with malicious comments and let him bumped by the bullies, strong and big boys, Lennart Löscher had the nickname Viking for example and then this antisocial bitch really called me at the office because my son was bleeding profusely, I should come over here and immediately wipe away the mess and take my unsporting son with me. My husband took my son to the doctor, Ms. Weidler lied to my husband, it was a gymnastics accident and she would never have said things like that to me on the phone. The doctor advised to change schools immediately, he said, you don't can leave your child in a school like this, the next time maybe even worse will happen. Exactly! But my parents and my husband were so cowardly, that's why changing schools didn't work because they were constantly working against it. If my son hadn't been so strong, stronger than many others, I could visit his grave today, I'm sure.
And since we're talking about graves, here we got them the last year and even after my son had already changed schools, anonymous calls, mostly from Lennart Löscher and Kevin Westenhöfer, these anti-social idiots had called so often that I heard their voices knew very well. In those phone calls, they told me we should all kill ourselves and then they would dance on our graves. When my son answered, they posed as his supposed friends on the phone trying to arrange a meeting, and then they laughed out loud into the phone. I have to tell you honestly, if I had been a man, if I had beaten the shit out of the asses of these assholes, it would have been worth every punishment and I would have been hospitalized for a few weeks, I promise!
But I could have done that with other people too. How can you be as stupid as sending my husband and son on a trip to England with the class when the bullying is so extreme. Strangely, my husbands signature was enough for that, to change schools it took two signatures. Strange conditions right? Of course the school trip was a diseaster, the situation escalated on the first bus trip in England and my son was cursed as a drug addict criminal. The teachers did not step in, but the brave male class representative and believe me, it takes courage to take such a step against such a crowd. As far as I know, the class representative only dared to do it once. Guess why? During the trip, the bullies continued, of course, and my son called me every day to ask if I could get him from England. It was awful! Ms. Weidler lied to my husband that my son is doing fine and that I should not be overprotective. I would have loved to spank the ass of this lying bitch too.
At the end, the school call for the police was the last great bullying act! That was the revenge of the school management because we wanted to change schools before the exam and had already found a school here. Two female headmistresses of to other schools believed the lies of Ms. Klass and said they would not accept my son at their schools because of that what Ms. Klass told them, we should come to an agreement with the school. If these women had not been so stupid, otherwise everything might not have happened. We found out that from the headmaster of another school, this kind old gentleman who wanted to take my son in immediately. However, after the police operation, my son no longer felt able to take any exam, the shock at this malevolence was too great.
I found the behavior of my son's alleged friend, Fabian Schorer, who was involved in this intrigue to spoil my son's exam and drive him out of school, outrageous. He had been Lennart Löscher's secret friend and spy for a long time, I often saw him running to Lennart Löscher's house in the district and immediately afterwards there was another devilry in the class. There's nothing like wrong friends, is there? Incidentally, I was told that Lennart Löscher makes his mischief at Naxcon Freiburg and Fabian Schorer at the University of Bayreuth. Condolences dear company Naxcon and dear Uni Bayreuth, congratulations, that they have in their firm and their campus the greatest psychopathic lying bastards I have ever met.
This evil bullying by the same people and their childs was lasting from Kindergarten to High School. And also at the elementary school beforre the High School time, there were long four years of attacks from the bullies, above all Lennart Löscher and also the parents, especially the later chairman of the parents' council at the school in Stuttgart-Neugereut, Mr. Frank Löscher, participated in this psychological terror.
The support of the female principal at the time at the elemantary school and the female class teacher, who referred to these students and parents as pack and my son as dear, highly intelligent boy, helped very much.
The leading and psychopathic severe manipulative bully Lennart Löscher was also the leader here. My son, his school friends, the girls, the youngest pupils were already victims of the Löscher gang here, unfortunately that is what you have to call it. Even then, the Löscher Gang thought it was funny to try to drown the youngest pupils, the youngest pupils and the girls during swimming lessons or to throw the victims with their satchels from the back down the long stairs in the school building. The supervisors and concerned parents like me were horrified, but do you think these monsters have been removed from the school? No, these monsters were already making telephone terrorism back then and were lying in wait for my son and his friends on the way, insulting and threatening them, because they were of primary school age, with impunity. In contrast to my son, the Löscher Gang did not receive a recommendation for a secondary school from the principal and class teacher, but unfortunately they made it anyway with entrance tests and again my son had these idiots in the class and I always had parents' events with the equally idiotic parents to do. It was bad, however, that the bullies came back to the same high school in Stuttgart-Neugereut.
I received during the High School time particularly idiotic letters and calls from the bullying parents Lösch, Rück and Seifert. It doesn't get any more anti-social or stupid, no wonder these children have become psychopaths. When my son was the smallest in the class of Lennart Löscher, Lukas Schmidt, Robin Rück, Behar Hasanaj and was repeatedly attacked at the bus stop and hit on the head in such a way that he suffered a slight concussion, the reactions of the bullying parents were as follows: Mr. Löscher wrote letters of complaint to the first rector, Mr. Hagen, and to us that my son is a weakling who provokes attacks. The brain-amputated Rector Hagen wrote a letter during the school holidays that if my son did not stop, to attack Lennart Löscher (Lennart Löscher was 30 cm taller, 30 kg heavier and two years older than my son, the others were of a similar stature and also older), he would expel my son from school. We got no answer to our complaint, the rector, this brainless idiot, disappeared and in his place came the even bigger bootlicker of bullies and their parents, Mr. Röhrig. Ms. Rück called me for no reason and screamed that they were tired of the endless theater with my son and that we should finally leave. I caught Frau Seifert personally in the local stationery store, where she said to another unknown woman that losers like us should just move away. So much for the social behavior of parents who raised bullies.
We were often advised to move; we would have done that immediately if we hadn't built a new great house. From today's perspective, I don't know whether staying was the right thing to do.
The behavior and inactivity of the state education authority was also pathetic; the many compassionate calls after the disaster were no longer of any use to my son.
The failure of the Stuttgart lawyers of our legal protection insurance, Mr. Matthias Hörnisch and Ms. Heidi Riedinger, who were so incapable and greedy for money that the insurance company terminated us and the matter against the bullies was finally put on record was also miserable. I can only describe these lawyers as money greedy and humanly incapable idiots.
At Ergo legal protection insurance, I first had a very good female clerk who gave me full support. For reasons I don't know, the case was taken away from her, and then really anti-social male idiots came into play. Because when my husband complained that the two lawyers Hörnisch and Riedinger wouldn't do anything, just collect money, our legal protection insurance was terminated and the new insurance no longer wanted to take over my son's case, so the bullies were still unpunished to this day. But shortly before that, the newspaper said that this ergo legal protection insurance had made expensive meetings with escort ladies, so they took the high membership fees for that or ... We were a member of this shit insurance for over twenty years.
That was not all! But also two more distant female acquaintances, brain-amputated idiots, said in a know-it-all way about the escalation of the bullying, that victims of bullying would challenge the bullying, that they were weaklings and losers, mothers' boys and that they were too pampered and did not know what life is like. I replied, wait until your sons get caught. And I didn't have to wait long, because both sons of these smart women were bullied away from the universities and bulled into the psychiatric ward. What a howling and whining of the two oh-so-clever acquaintances. Then I said, now you know how it is. Since then they haven't talked to me anymore, funny or .. I can do without people like that in difficult times, they are full of shit.
And the worst thing about this fucking school with this fucking principal, the lying vice principal and the idiotic class teachers who were bullying along with them, was that they successfully played off family members against each other, namely the grandparents and my husband against my son and me, they played the same disgusting game in my son's class , because at the beginning he still had supporters against the bullying, but they were intimidated, ridiculed until they fell silent. And I just think that sucks. People like that take care of our kids at school, those disgusting, abhorrent people, and they're paid damn well for this lousy job, they did. However, I also have to say that when family members like the grandparents and my husband are so cowardly and stupid and not on the side of a child, then they should actually be put up against the wall and shot because of stupidity and cowardice. Because that is the real evil in bullying, the cowardice and stupidity of others. If you have people like that around you like me, give them a kick in the ass and banish such idiots from your life forever, because that is what I should have done back then.
And the best comes last. If you have a fucking schoolmate like ours back then who claims that bullying of the very worst and most dangerous kind is normal school life, then you immediately file a supervisory complaint against all these incompetent fools and hire a competent lawyer, because that is the very last thing, criminal juvenile offender just to apologize so that nothing has to be done. Believe me, children and young people can distinguish between right and wrong very well. So it is absolutely stupid and lying to judge differently here than with adults.
Also give your legal expenses insurance and their lawyers a kick ass if you see those incompetent assholes just making things worse, like my son's case, and find a new insurance company with better lawyers as soon as possible. I planned to do that back then, but you already guessed it, with a fool of a husband, it was unfortunately not possible. The matter then escalated after a phone call with my husband, I have no idea what that bullshit said on the phone that we were fired and that's damn bad in Germany, you hardly get a new legal protection insurance and if you do, it doesn't cover it a case like school bullying, which is not even considered a criminal offense in Germany.
And worst of all were the so-called experts who, after my son had left school, were supposed to help him deal with the trauma. With these utterly incompetent bastards, it was just a matter of cashing in a lot of money and blaming us all. They were of the opinion: You are not bullied for no reason, you have challenged yourself, offered yourself up as a victim, you are too sensitive, you have not defended yourself, etc. If you and your loved ones have already been victims of violent crimes and bullying, then you know damn well what I'm talking about. What kind of morons are these so-called experts who excuse perpetrators and accuse victims. I really kicked them in the ass back then, in which we no longer went there and I clearly gave these idiots my opinion. Namely, as I said to these idiots, are you trying to claim that all victims of violence, i.e. murder, rape, assault, child abuse, bullying in the workplace and in school, are to be blamed for everything? So that if a small child has raped and killed by perverts, it is to blame for the deed by inciting the perpetrators to act. And you want to be competent, I've never heard more nonsense like your arguments! I think these idiots have fond memories of me to this day, but to remain silent means to agree, you have to remember that. Don't listen to these idiots and protect loved ones from those worse than perpetrators themselves.
Believe me, I looked the absolutely evil in the face at that time and I don't even wish that same for my worst enemies.
I generally wish all bullies a special place in hell and that they get the life and death they deserve.