Justice for Xavier

Justice for Xavier

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Brian Durham started this petition to Ohio disciplinary commission

 
Dear sir or ma'am, I am writing to you because I am confident that you will be both willing and able to help me. My complete story is long and I have experienced a lot of mistreatment and injustice perpetrated by the court system on Athens Ohio. This is mostly because of a custody decision, but also I was mistreated by the staff of the southeast Ohio regional jail in Nelsonville Ohio. I was forced to hold a sign for my picture, which I understand is part of the booking process, but they had marked a capitol M instead of an F, knowing that my state identification card stated that I am female. I complained about it and asked for it to be changed, and my request was denied. I had drank nothing but was thrown in the drunk tank. After booking I was put in solitary, and the only thing I was in jail for was to be forced to attend a court hearing the following morning. I had committed no crime, and was not charged with a crime. I was told I had missed a hearing in May of 2019. I was in that courtroom for a hearing in August, and again in October on the 10th. I have a hearing tomorrow that was scheduled on October 10th. I attended the first supervised visitation I was permitted to attend on October 24th 2019.  The warrant was dated for October 24th 3019. It was also time stamped on the top which was 6:49 P.M. I was arrested at 6:30 P.M. On October 24th as I walked out of the children's services building. The current issue began on August 3rd of 2019 when my six year old son was returned to me on Friday evening after a 2 week stay with his mother, and to me and several other people he was obviously in a state of extreme distress. I was horrified by his demeanor. I began to ask him what was the cause of the distress. I then discovered that my six year old son, Xavier, was being abused by his mothers boyfriend. He was scheduled to go to his mother on Monday morning. He was terrified of going there do I instead took him to the sheriff and I also filed for a protective order and custody, but I was in a state of shock and made a huge mistake. I had forgotten to get my statement notorized. Of course as a non lawyer I should not have been held to that standard and should have at least been heard by a judge. I heard nothing from the investigator or the court until Thursday. He went back Friday. To punish me for daring to disobey the court order my visitation was taken completely for two months and then reduced to the 90 minutes once a week at the children's services office. The mother and her boyfriend apparently told the investigator that Xavier was a problem child who was disobedient and that he told lies a lot. They Also used the trigger words "his dad is on drugs" which is a blatent lie, but the cops are programmed to react to those words in  particular way. I have been disabled for five years, and have given the child support folks copies of all the papers from my doctor stating that I am disabled. Still, the other key words that cause officers and judges to immediately hate you are "he doesn't pay child support" whether you are disabled or not. During the original custody battle the mother had to be told by the judge that she was guilty of endangering the life of the infant, and my ability to be a proper parent has never been called into question, yet he still gave her custody. She disobeyed written court orders several times and I eventually asked that she be charged with contempt. She was not. But she had proved that she was the one least likely to follow court orders. I was actually told at one point, by the judge in Athens County Ohio, that the United States constitution does not apply in their courtroom. From the birth of the child the mother has used all of her will to keep me from being a part of my sons life, yet my parenting plan and everything I have said and done has been to the ends of the child having both of his parents play equal parts in his upbringing. The whole case was seemingly fair and I was treated fairly until she told the judge that I was a crossdresser. He told her that it would not affect the outcome, yet from that point I was treated in a different way. At one point her attorney had asked for a hearing to clarify orders. He was granted a hearing and it was scheduled for the following Monday. They knew I would not recieve the notice in time and I was told that it was discussed. Luckily there was an honest lady working there at the time who sent an email to warn me about the situation, and I believe they were shocked to see me at the hearing. The lady is no longer employed there, and her employment there terminated shortly after this incident. I am not treated fairly, which I don't really care about for myself, but when my child is being forced to live with a monster, and master manipulator, because of the fact that these people see custody as a war, and only beating me down has become the most important outcome instead of truly looking at this from the child's point of view, I become a bit angry, a bit disgusted, and a lot broken hearted. He was abused and kept it to himself for a year and a half, and then it became to much to bear on his own and he broke. He finally told me and I took him to the people who are entrusted with a role of very significant import, and their emotions, which are completely controlled without their expressed consent and knowledge, become extreme. They are so polarized towards hatred of transgender people that they can't think for themselves, the programming tied to the trigger words takes complete control of their mind, and they are completely unable to focus on that which is actually the most important thing. Xavier and what is the best for him has taken the back burner. That breaks my heart. How exactly is the best thing for him to take his right to have his father present in his life, and just have his time with his father that is part of his routine, fair and just for Xavier? He is being punished for speaking out against abuse. Do you think he will ever believe that it is ok to tell on abusers? I highly doubt it. He has been called a liar. He is being programmed to believe that you are never ever to speak out against any person who is in a higher position, and if he does he will be the one who suffers for it. And we wonder why people do not trust government employees. If they do not trust you, you will be unable to trust them. There are many more examples and there is much proof that both mine and my sons constitutionally guaranteed freedoms from government mistreatment and abuse are of no concern to this county and its employees. Our rights have been interfered with many times in many ways. This is of great concern to me, and should be of great importance to anyone who believes in freedom and the United States constitution. I can't help but wonder how many other children in Athens County Ohio have been forced to experience horrible things simply because one of the parents would dare to not conform. I have no money nor am I able to work. We live with my mother in law and there is no reason for anyone to believe that Xavier is not cared for or that all his needs are not met when he is with us. His mother is getting elm from the welfare, and were he here the welfare would simply continue to help him the way he is helped now. If you personally have other obligations I am certain that you will be able to introduce me to the person who is available and who will help. Thank you for your time. 


      Brian Eric Durham Sr 

 


 
 

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