So many women/men hide, or don’t come forward with abuse as military spouses. The abusers have no consequences, and are protected by command. It’s time to make sure commands are educated on signs of abuse, how to handle it, and stop brushing it under the rug because they believe acknowledging and addressing it, makes them look bad.

The military is supposed to protect all, not just the AD members, to protect their reputations. 

They say there’s help, they say reach out, but at the end of the day. The military does not care, till it’s too late.

Our voices need heard.