Hunter is going on paintball trips exceeding 3 hours, increasing every week. I cannot stand this madness. 
him being gone causes:

saddness, horniness, misery, separation anxiety, boredom and disgust in myself and his “hobby” 

If you ask me paint-balling is an act of satan, and I for one, will never support satan believers, disgusting. 

in conclusion, I need my emotional support husband 90% of the day. Unless I come with, I do not believe it should be allowed.