Everyone no matter the gender should be able to marry the one that they love. I am bi-sexual and would like to think that if I had chosen a woman for my partner that I would have been able to marry her if I had chosen. I have lesbian family members and would love nothing more than to see them happy and get married if they want to. Most people don't want to travel out of state just so they are allowed to get married legally. You don't chose what gender you like or love. You love who you love and that's the end of it.