Please help me stop my son being forcibly adopted through family courts.
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Local Authority want adoption against my will and will work with the perpetrator to succeed. These courts claim to want justice however the way I see it children are given to people who don't wish to look after them then placed back into the system. Professionals are not conducting thorough checks.
I took my son to medicals, play centres yet the LA say I classed him as a disabled child that did not need stimulating. They have no proof of this. I have bank reciepts, pictures of toys, pictures of us playing with toys pictures of my son socialising, holidays and more .I took my son to speech and language, sensory play, soft play, children centre walk in groups yet somehow I did not stimulate him enough. The reports mentioned the toys he had all age appropriate so what was I doing wrong??
Fight forced adoption in the UK. My case is opened again due to father abusing boy L then placing in foster care and handing him back to the system he had him two weeks then put him back Into the system for a second time. CAFCASS saw past the abuser.
The parenting assessor , social services and guardian all believed he demonstrated good parenting even after not showing up to contact sessions, drinking heavily and abusing women physically and emotionally. The Local Authority still were prepared to support him look after our son and all alienated me preventing me from seeing him..
I took my son to all his medicals they say neglect. I cannot use names but those of you on my support page know this case well. I do not want adoption nor did I consent to a Section 20. The courts are satisfied I never agreed to a section 20 but the LA is still lying that this happened.. Stop forced adoption in the UK I pay my taxes to be Victimised. The courts are not accepting evidence that clears mental health and fabricating documents. I'm on a gagging order .
Deprived of contact for two months then when I was allowed to see my son told that due to mental health concerns and risk of future emotional harm adoption would be considered ( against my will. ) Children passed from home to home and causing attachment problems when they have loving homes that want them!! I want my son home !!
Mothers and children not given a damm about in family courts. Evidence is disregarded by the judge and other parties.
Of course children end up with attachment disorders when they get shipped from home to home and us parents are lambs lead to the slaughter. The NHS were satisfied with my parenting until the hired Gun court experts entered the case then speculated a personality disorder and blamed mental this on the reason my son was not meeting his communication milestones. The NHS did not agree with the ' experts. '
I finish a night shift and have the LA banging on my door and disturbing the neighbours in my building. I pay my tax, I meet your demands yet I'm treated like a criminal in these proceedings and for what? Uncertainty if I have a personality disorder or not !
Local Authority speculated autism and diagnosed SEN in my child. He qualified for early nursery funding..I attended paediatrics, audiology and speech and language. DLA was awarded to him based on your reports. You could not fault basic parenting.
I've spoken to many mums in the same position you are not alone. Do not feel isolated. Let's come together as one.
I love you Boy L and I do not want adoption for you I never have and never will. The LA stopped my contact for 2 months despite it progressing onto community contact.
His dad started harassing me to sign what we believe were adoption papers or section 20 ( We refused to sign) it resulted in us having to call the police on two occasions where his father was harassing and being verbally abusive yet the local authority label me as angry.
Local authorities will use domestic violence against you and even work with the Perpatrator to we get the result that suits Them. The guardian is also ignorant to victims of domestic violence..
Let's face it the paedophile rings and prostitution scandals are abuse and the attitude to the victims in the Rotherham case that the children were ' already damaged.' Social Services are at the heart of the abuse. Solicitors frauding legal aid and corrupt judges. We need a change in this corrupt system.
An expert witness lied I had self harm scars when in fact I do not. The independent social worker checked my arms and saw they were clear she then said " perhaps you have them on your stomach and legs." I was made me to feel that I should take off my clothes for a body examination yet this was supposed to be a parenting assessment ??! I showed her my legs and offered to show her my stomach but she said no need. The scars the psychiatrist was referring to were acne scars not self harm scars.
I have bank statements, videos and photos to show my parenting but it's all disregarded in the eyes of family court. Quality of life in the UK is poor. My husband is a British citizen the social worker wanted to check his passport to check he was legally here and then assumed his race. It's victimisation. I have no criminal record, pay my taxes and work hard. I do not drink alcohol,smoke or take recreational drugs.
Stop treating loving parents as criminals. The ICO was contested by myself at no point in these proceedings have I agreed to you being in there Boy L. The court heard that I can look vulnerable adults and children but not allowed my own son this is why I am protesting.
CAFCASS said my son looked like a ghost and withdrawn which is rubbish I have pictures the day he was taken and he did not look withdrawn and other parents did not think so until I had a gagging order put on me and could not show it. She said he plays with new toys now I said well he played with buggies and dolls at play group I have pictures. She even said that the fathers abuse would not have affected him. Domestic violence is played down she decided a violent alcoholic was the best option.. That placement broke down within two weeks and he was back in the system.
He was the happiest , healthiest little boy.. When taken into care his eyes were red and puffy I took pictures in the Halloween costume I brought him but it wasn't the same being in a room filled with broken toys when he had lovely new working toys at home. These places aren't for the children when Ofsted rates them so low and the children are imprisoned in a small room with restrictions.
I was told that I didn't agree with the foster carer by the IRO... Hang on a minute she Injured my sons head on her car boot. That was careless and dangerous .. It left a scar on his head. Nothing was done about it.
I now work as a teaching assistant and provide support to the students yet I am told I cannot see my son unsupervised. I can't see the logic behind that can you??!
A SOCIAL WORKER'S POEM
I am a social worker,
I'm really very nice.
I help you loving mothers,
And give you good advice!
Your partner has departed
Your income is too low.
I'm really very sorry,
All your kids will have to go!
Your partner is abusive?
He beats you black and blue?
We'll soon be there to help you,
And take your children too!
You have a learning problem,
You're really not too clever
We'll get your kids adopted
When can you see them?? NEVER!!
Your son is hyperactive?
You need a brief respite;
We'll soon take ALL your children
Give up the hopeless fight!
Your child was taken into care,
So many years ago
If now you have a baby
That too will have to go!
Foster parents love your kids
To get some more they seek,
For each one brings a tidy sum
£400 per week!!
Children's homes are run by us,
Where paedophiles abound
Each time we cover up abuse
"The gutter press" come round.
"They" said adoptions worked the best
We soon proved that they would
Fathers shout and mothers cry
Their kids are gone for good!
What happens in our special courts?
Our experts they will say
"You're a danger to your children,
So we'll take them all away!"
Your children may be healthy,
Happy and well fed
But one day you might hurt them
That's what our experts said
The judges know that we are right,
With us they will agree
They dare not risk another course
You have no chance you see!
Our special courts are secret,
So don't you breathe a word
Of what goes on inside those walls
No matter how absurd!
We'll get your kids adopted,
And don't you dare complain!
Or you'll end up in prison
And I won't say that again!
We have adoption targets,
They must be met you see,
Failure means a reprimand,
So spare a thought for me!!!
by IAN JOSEPHS
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