I have been kept from my child for a month now, while I am offered a proposed Consent Order, granting me FOUR DAYS a month with my child. Any GOOD father knows this is unacceptable time to establish a relationship and have any kind of positive influence in his child's life. They tell me this is a "standard" Consent Order in North Carolina. Well, I AM NOT A STANDARD FATHER! Please help me equip myself and other GOOD fathers have a voice for positive change. For loving fathers to be granted more access to their children, and change the archaic family law system, and make it less about MONEY, and more about THE CHILDREN!
I have just found out that my child has asthma. I have his mother recorded as saying he doesn't. I'm inclined to believe the former. NC, is THIS in the best interest of my child? Are you trying to kill him?
I also have NO problem supporting my child, but when I hear of Child Support Agents dancing around the back room of a courthouse, because they're putting a good father in jail, not because he won't pay support, but because he CAN'T, I have a HUGE issue with this. Not only are child support orders outrageous, but most times unfair. How many good fathers know that States get Federal money, depending on the amount of child support they collect? Do they know that it's a multi billion dollar industry nationwide? Do they know that their unfair orders are used to collect Title IV-D money to replenish their public assistance programs, and probably to pay a majority of CSE agent's salaries? My support order doesn't have just a case #, it has a IV-D case #. Talk about throwing it right in your face. Of course these crooks don't want things to change, they'd be out of work. A non custodial father winds up supporting more than his own children. Equal, shared parenting would take the money AWAY from the states, lawyers, and courts, and be better put to use ON THE CHILDREN. I can't think of a better way to consider "the best interest of the child"!!!