NJ County Prosecutor: See Something, Say Something - Victim Blaming in Friedlander Murder Imperils Public Safety!
  • Petitioned Paula Dow, NJ AG; Chris Christie, NJ Gov; Camelia Valdes, County Prosecutor

This petition was delivered to:

Paula Dow, NJ AG; Chris Christie, NJ Gov; Camelia Valdes, County Prosecutor

NJ County Prosecutor: See Something, Say Something - Victim Blaming in Friedlander Murder Imperils Public Safety!

    1. Petition by

      The New Agenda

On October 18, 2011, Sam Friedlander bludgeoned his wife Amy to death with a wooden rolling pin, shot his two children in their beds, then went down to the basement and shot himself.   Beginning on October 19 and continuing for several days, two of Sam Friedlander's law school classmates, attorneys David Pine and Michael Borg, were quoted in numerous media outlets defending Sam and blaming Amy.

David Pine currently serves as Senior Assistant Prosecutor, Passaic County Prosecutor’s Office.

We the undersigned believe that David Pine should be removed from his current position as a country prosecutor, effectively immediately, for the following reasons:

I) County Prosecutor David Pine has damaged public confidence in the administration of criminal justice by defending and seeking to justify the murderous actions of his friend, Sam Friedlander.

In response to reports that Sam Friedlander brutally murdered his wife and two children, David Pine voluntarily offered testimony to the media in defense of the mass murderer’s character and actions.[1] His comments aimed to justify the brutal murders by blaming the victim wife for the killer’s actions.

On October 19, 2011, David Pine was quoted in The Journal News:

“I saw a guy emotionally abused over time," Pine said. "We always hear of domestic violence against women, but there's also emotional domestic violence against men. He was showing all the classic signs of being emotionally abused." ...

In fact, Pine went so far as to state that the children’s murders were caused by wife Amy’s “years of emotional torment” of his friend.

"I can't put a handle on why he would take the lives of his kids," he continued, "but whatever it was was a result of years of emotional torment that he must have (gone) through in that household."

Because prosecutors have discretion regarding whether or not to prosecute a case, the public must have confidence that they will do so in a professional and unbiased manner.   David Pine’s comments - which blame heinous crimes of domestic violence on the victim rather than the perpetrator - have stripped citizens of and visitors to the State of New Jersey of confidence in the integrity of the State’s criminal justice system.

II)  County Prosecutor David Pine failed to report his knowledge of the likelihood of a future crime, and failed to act although he believed that  Sam Friedlander posed a danger to his family.

On October 20, 2011, David Pine was quoted in The New York Post (emphasis added):

David Pine, another Western New England College Law School pal of Friedlander, said Sam “was exhibiting signs of being emotionally abused.”

“He said to me, ‘They [Amy and her immediate family] want to take me down,’ meaning destroy him financially, destroy him emotionally and have him out of the kids’ lives,” Pine said. “I knew that an incident would happen in that household.

As a person charged with the administration of criminal justice, David Pine had an obligation to attempt to prevent the “incident” he knew “would happen in that household.”   His options included reporting his concerns to authorities or seeking court-ordered treatment for his friend.

On October 19, 2011, David Pines was quoted in The New York Times:

Another friend, David Pine, said that Mr. Friedlander, who was usually neatly groomed, had recently begun to appear disheveled and stopped returning his phone calls. “He went into his own cocoon,” Mr. Pine said,

As a county prosecutor with belief that the household was in danger, Mr. Pine was obligated to ensure that his friend receive treatment.  Knowledge that both NY and NJ laws allow for court-ordered treatment when an individual is considered dangers must be imputed to David Pine.  [2]

Although he claims to have recognized symptoms and danger in Sam Friedlander, he chose to focus on blaming the wife rather than acting to prevent the tragedy.

[1] The N.J. Code of Ethics for County Prosecutors specifically provides, "No county prosecutor or employee of a county prosecutor shall voluntarily testify as a character or reputation witness on behalf of any person accused of a criminal offense..."

[2] NY: http://www.treatmentadvocacycenter.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=228&Itemid=163

NJ: http://www.treatmentadvocacycenter.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=226&Itemid=161

Recent signatures


    1. Third Call to Camelia Valdes, Pine's boss


      Today a third phone call message has been left with Camelia Valdes, head of the Passaic County Prosecutor's Office and David Pine's boss. We have sent this petition to her via email.

      We will keep pushing for action!

    2. Reached 1,000 signatures
    3. Today we issued the following PRESS RELEASE!

      The New Agenda, a national organization dedicated to achieving safety and opportunity for all women, launched a petition to have a New Jersey county prosecutor who made victim-blaming statements about the NY Friedlander family murders terminated or re-assigned for his statements. On Oct. 18 Amy Friedlander and her two children were brutally murdered by husband and father Sam Friedlander.

      The petition addressed to New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie, Attorney General Paula Dow, and Passaic County prosecutor Camelia M. Valdes, notes that Senior Assistant Passaic County Prosecutor David Pine called the murders the “result of continued emotional torment in that household.” He is also quoted in news coverage that he “knew something would happen in that household.”


    4. Reached 500 signatures


    Reasons for signing

    • Edee Lemonier VANCOUVER, WA
      • almost 3 years ago

      There is absolutely NO excuse for rape, sexual assault, or murder. It takes a LOT for those of us who have been victimized to come forward. Fear of our abuser is one reason, victim blame/assassination of character is another. IIt starts early and escalates. It is very easy to drag a woman through the mud when she is dead, and that is a very cowardly thing to do. These people and their "supporters" need to step up and take responsibility for their own heinous behavior.

    • Deborah Sumner NEW YORK, NY
      • almost 3 years ago

      Because it's not OK to blame the victim and knowing that there might be an 'incident' and not saying anything is not OK either.

    • Ben Colvin REMSENBURG, NY
      • almost 3 years ago

      Regardless of relationship dynamics MURDER cannot be rationalized as David Pine has done. This view betrays public trust of his office.

    • David Horowitz WASHINGTON, DC
      • almost 3 years ago

      Violence is never a justifiable action. "The practice of violence, like all action, changes the world, but the most probable change is a more violent world." --Hannah Arendt

    • Meredith Lucio WEEHAWKEN, NJ
      • almost 3 years ago

      Mr. Pine's complete disregard for the victims in this case show a complete lack of reason and rationale necessary for a prosecutor. As a woman living in NJ, I am disheartened to realize that my rights may be impugned in the case of violence against me.


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