Remove Mr Mountford from Headship at the Harwich and Dovercourt Highschool
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Remove Mr Mountford from Headship at the Harwich and Dovercourt Highschool

    1. Petition by

      Harry Prosser

      harwich, United Kingdom

Mr Mountford thinks he can bully parents and students into doing what he wants them to do, it is time people took a stand and showed him he wont get away with it

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    1. 3 months of being refused entry

      Harry Prosser
      Petition Organizer

      tommorow (4/12/12) will mark exactly 3 months in which i have been refused entry to the Harwich and Dovercourt High School in total 31 letters have been sent to the school in this time only acknowledgements of reciept have been sent back, except for one letter sent to america, when we live in the UK. no-body from the school is willing to speak of the subject and they will not explain why i am not allowed in when other students have the same piercings as me and are allowed into school.

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    3. my denial of rights by Mr Mountford

      Harry Prosser
      Petition Organizer

      we have recently finished the 8th consecutive week, in which Mr Mountford will not allow me into school for my religion. He will not allow me in , he is making me go to school everyday to be sent away. I may stay in school if i work in isolation, a room for severe punishment, however why should i be punished for my religion? he won't exclude me allowing things to move on faster and further, it seems he is just happy to be preventing me from gaining an education and to be denying me my basic human rights

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    • Anita Kanitz STUTTGART, GERMANY
      • 10 months ago

      My Ex-tenant is a sadistic gangstalker and cyberbully!

      Cyberbullying on the Internet

      Cyber bullies, cyber bullying, flame mail, hate mail

      The Internet provides the perfect forum for cyberbullies, individuals whose aim is to gain gratification from the distress caused by provoking and tormenting others. The anonymity, ease of provocation, and almost infinite source of targets means the Internet is full of predators from pedophiles targeting children to serial bullies targeting ... anybody.

      Cyberbullies get a perverse sense of satisfaction (called gratification) from sending people flame mail and hate mail. Flame mail is an email whose contents are designed to inflame and enrage. Hate mail is hatred (including prejudice, racism, sexism etc) in an email.

      Serial bullies, whose behaviour profile you'll find in full at Bully OnLine, harbour a lot of internal aggression which they direct at others. This may include projection, false criticism and patronising sarcasm whilst contributing nothing of any value. It may also include a common tactic of "a number of people have emailed me backchannel to agree with me". This is standard bully-speak which I've experienced on several forums. In every case it's a fabrication or a distortion - usually the former. It's also a variant of the serial bully head teacher who says "a number of parents have complained to me about you...". When challenged, the identity of the alleged complainants can't be disclosed because it's "confidential". The purpose of this tactic is to wind people up. Don't be fooled into believing it has any validity - it doesn't.

      People who bully are adept at creating conflict between those who would otherwise pool negative information about them. The method of creating conflict is provocation which bullies delight in because they know they can always coerce at least one person to respond in a manner which can then be distorted and used to further flame and inflame people. And so it goes on. The bully then sits back and gains gratification from seeing others engage in destructive behaviour towards each other.

      Many serial bullies are also serial attention-seekers. More than anything else they want attention. It doesn't matter what type of attention they get, positive or negative, as long as they can provoke someone into paying them attention. It's like a 2-year-old child throwing a tantrum to get attention from a parent. The best way to treat bullies is to refuse to respond and to refuse to engage them - which they really hate. In other words, do not reply to their postings, and on forums carry on posting without reference to their postings as if they didn't exist. In other words, treat nobodies as nobodies.

      The anger of a serial bully is especially apparent when they come across someone who can see through them to espy the weak, inadequate, immature, dysfunctional aggressive individual behind the mask. For instance, when serial bullies see themselves described at workbully/serial.htm they usually send me an abusive email.

      If you receive abusive emails or flame mails or hate mail, you can forward it to abuse@isp where "isp" is the service provider the abuser is using, eg "aol.com" or "yahoo.com". Although Internet service providers may not act on every complaint, the more complaints they receive about a particular individual (with examples of abusive email) the more likely they are to close down the person's account.

      The objectives of bullies are Power, Control, Domination, Subjugation. They get a kick out of seeing you react. It doesn't matter how you react, the fact they've successful provoked a reaction is, to the bully, a sign that their attempt at control have been successful. After that, it's a question of wearing you down. The more your try to explain, negotiate, conciliate, etc the more gratification they obtain from your increasingly desperate attempts to communicate with them. Understand that it is not possible to communicate in a mature adult manner with a disordered individual who's emotionally retarded.

      The Number One rule for dealing with this type of behaviour is: don't respond, don't interact and don't engage. This is not as easy to do as it sounds. It's a natural response to want to defend yourself, and to put the person right. However, never argue with a serial bully; it's not a mature adult discussion, but like dealing with a child or immature teenager; whilst the serial bully may be an adult on the outside, on the inside they are like a child who's never grown up - and probably never will. Serial bullies and harassers often have disordered thinking patterns and do not share the same thoughts or values as you.

      The second rule is to keep all abusive emails. Create a new folder, perhaps called "Abuse", and move hate mail and flame mail into this folder. You don't have to read it. When the time comes to take action, this folder of hate mail and flame mail is your evidence. Bullies, especially cyberbullies, are obsessive people and if their account is closed down you may start receiving mail from another address. This can later be compared to the abusive emails you've already received to identify the perpetrator. You'll find the same words, phrases and strategies occurring.

      The third rule is to understand bullying. Read through Bully OnLine carefully, understand the profile of the serial bully. Recognise that you are not dealing with a person who has the same mindset as yourself. Bullying, and especially cyberbullying, has links with stalking - see related/stalking.htm for links to stalking sites.

      Rule four is get help. If you're a young person, this is essential. Even mature experienced adults often cannot handle bullying and harassment by themselves. Sometimes you are dealing with a severely disordered and dangerous individual.

      Rule five is become alert to provocation. It could be called "The Baiting Game". A provocative comment is made and those who respond spontaneously in irritation (eg non-assertively) are then encouraged to engage in conflict with those who respond without irritation (eg assertively). The provoker watches, waits and stirs the pot with the occasional additional provocation. What interests me is the sense of gratification that a provoker gains from watching others indulge in destructive interaction initiated by him- or herself. In this context, gratification is a perverse form of satisfaction akin to, but distinct from, pleasure.

      The sixth rule is become an observer. Although you may be the target of the cyberbully's anger, you can train yourself to act as an observer. This takes you out of the firing line and enables you to study the perpetrator and collect evidence. When people use bullying behaviours they project their own weaknesses, failings and shortcomings on to others. In other words, they are telling you about themselves by fabricating an accusation based on something they themselves have done wrong. Whenever you receive a flame mail or hate mail, train yourself to instinctively ask the question, "What is this person revealing about themselves this time?"

      The seventh rule is decide if you want to take action, and if so, prepare carefully and strike hard. Sometimes refusing to respond and engage will result in the cyberbully losing interest and going off to find someone easier to torment. Sometimes though, especially if there has been interaction in the past, the cyberbully is so obsessed that s/he cannot and will not let go. You will have to make that person let go, but only through swift, hard, legal action, and only when the time is right. Don't deal with the abuser yourself (this encourages bullies and stalkers), use a third party such as a solicitor.

      Finally a reminder - never try to mediate, negotiate, conciliate or otherwise deal with a bully or stalker yourself. Always remember Rule #1: don't respond, don't interact and don't engage.

      Bully OnLine is a gold mine of insight and information on bullying which identifies the different types of harassment and bullying, and exposes the principal perpetrator, the serial bully. Everyone, whether they're receiving flame mails or hate mail or not, knows at least one person in their life with the profile of the serial bully. Click here to see ...who does this describe in your life?

      Have a look through this web site to recognise the bullies and bullying in your life ... start with Am I being bullied? then move on to What is bullying? To find out what you can do about bullying, click Action to tackle bullying. Have a look at the profile of the serial bully which is common to sociopathic managers, harassers, stalkers, rapists, violent partners, abusers, paedophiles, even serial killers of the organised kind.

      If bullying and harassment have caused injury to health, commonly diagnosed as "stress", see the page on injury to health and the one on the psychiatric injury of trauma, a collection of symptoms congruent with the diagnostic criteria for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, or PTSD. Gang stalking involves the use of multiple individuals to stalk, harass and taunt a victim, as well as to vandalize personal property. This can take place for many years, particularly since law enforcement and legislation have yet to catch up with the reality of organized stalking by groups.

      Techniques of psychological warfare are used against the target in a methodical and well orchestrated attack that often leaves the target a victim of ridicule among his friends and family because this occurrence is so hard to believe. However, the number of targets are increasing to the point that they can network with one another and find out that the same tactics are used everywhere. These tactics are intended to weaken the target to the point of physical and psychological collapse.

      The reasons why a person is initially targeted can vary. Sometimes the person may be a political activist. Others may have been in the wrong place at the wrong time. Corporations apparently have even been known to hire these stalking groups to silence people who were once in their employ. These stalking gangs may be lied to about the target, thinking that perhaps the person is a deviant who needs to be driven out of town. The reasons are only limited to the imagination. In some cases, according to David Lawson, author of Terrorist Stalking in America, the person has done nothing wrong but is simply used as a practice target or as an example to others in the group to show what can happen to them if they anger the group in some way. This serves to keep the members of these stalking groups tied to the group through intense fear of becoming a target. It is such a terrifying prospect because the gang members are intimately aware that the lives of the targets are utterly destroyed.

      Many people ask, "Why would anyone engage in this kind of activity?". In order to answer that question, it's important to realize that the person who has decided to target an individual is not the person (or persons in this case) doing the stalking. This is known as "stalking by proxy". Those who have called "the hit" (so-to-speak) may be doing it for any number of reasons, including revenge, jealousy, or a desire to keep someone silent. It may be that physically harming a person is considered too extreme or too risky by the perpetrators. In fact, this kind of psychological attack can be a far more effective way to harm someone. It can completely destroy a person's life while leaving little or no evidence to incriminate the perpetrators.

      Additionally, there are the reasons that the stalkers themselves engage in the activity, which have little or nothing to do with why the person may have been targeted in the first place. It is conceivable that the participants in the harassment don't even know why the person has been targeted, nor would most of these individuals have any personal stake in harassing the victim. But certain things are clear - this is an both an addictive behavior as well as a form of entertainment for the stalkers. From the expressions on the faces of some of the perpetrators who come face-to-face with their targets, there is a vicious kind of pleasure that they derive from bullying their victim. Clearly they like the feeling of being "in control".

      Like our society's current obsession with "reality TV", this activity must inevitably gain popularity as the ultimate experience of "reality" entertainment. Such is the nature of the bottomless pit within the stalkers that thirsts, evermore, for greater and greater thrills. To the perpetrators, their targets are merely their prey, in a game that never ends. But make no mistake, whatever the reasoning behind it, this is a vicious and calculated hate crime.

      DESCRIPTION OF ACTIVITIES

      The types of activities which take place are often subtle, and sometimes cannot be distinguished from normal everyday things that go wrong, but they typically occur much more frequently than they would normally. David Lawson points out in his book, Terrorist Stalking in America, that the victim is intentionally "sensitized" to the presence of the stalkers, so he or she will know that the occurences are orchestrated. This causes intense psychological strain due to the isolation and ridicule that results when the target tries to share these experiences with others. It is a psychological reign of terror intended to make a victim look crazy and intended to keep him or her in a constant state of anxiety and stress as to "what will happen next" (also known as "hyper-vigilance").

      There was a 1944 movie called "Gaslight" about a husband trying to drive his wife crazy, from which the term "gaslighting" was derived. According to Slang City, "to gaslight someone is to drive them crazy by intentionally confusing them. It comes from the 1944 movie Gaslight, in which sweet heiress Ingrid Bergman marries creepy Charles Boyer, who hopes to get her inheritance by driving her insane. He convinces her she's seeing and hearing things that don't exist, including the gaslights (what they had before light bulbs) going on and off when he isn't home." The subtle techniques used to make the wife doubt her own sanity are similar to the techniques used by gang stalkers to unnerve a target.

      For example, the perpetrators (who appear to frequently have access to their targets' homes) may sometimes come into the house while the target is out and move things around a little bit, or spread some dirt on the floor or on furniture, or move an item from the house to the car. But usually they won't cause enough damage to involve the Police. This shows that this activity is a psychological game of cat and mouse, and has little to do with any overt kind of damage that may be caused, such as burning someone's house down or stealing valuables.

      In some cases, the target doesn't know s/he is being targeted. It just looks as though the world is full of very rude people, and everything s/he owns breaks constantly ("bad luck"). According to Lawson, the perpetrators don't need the target to know s/he is targeted in order to fill the need within themselves that they are in control.

      Although various researchers have developed different classification systems to describe stalking behaviors, one of the most commonly known classification typology was developed by Sheridan and Boon, who identified four basic types of stalkers.3

      1) Ex-Partner Harassment/Stalking: The ex-partner/harassment stalker comprised half of the stalker types in Sheridan and Boon's research. This type of stalker tends to be motivated by bitterness after an intimate relationship ends. Prior domestic violence and other forms of intimidation are common during the relationship, and when the relationship ends, not only is the stalking victim at risk, but family members, friends, and any new love interests may be at risk as well. These stalkers usually don't spend much time thinking or worrying about their actions because they tend to be impulsive and motivated by anger. Therefore, they aren't necessarily concerned when police are made aware of their actions. The overall risk for violence against persons and property in this stalking typology is high.

      2) Infatuation Harassment: This type of stalker comprised 18.5 percent of Sheridan and Boon's research. These stalkers generally fall into two age ranges: teens and middle-aged individuals. In contrast to the first typology, victims of infatuation harassment stalkers tend to be viewed by their stalkers in a positive light. These stalkers yearn to be with their victims and often view them as objects of ongoing desires and fantasies. As a result, their stalking behaviors generally involve relatively harmless, albeit annoying behaviors. The overall risk for violence in this stalking typology is relatively low.

      3) Delusional Fixation Stalking: Slightly over fifteen percent of the stalkers in the Sheridan and Boon study fell into the delusional fixation typology. These stalkers vary considerably not only in how they view their victims, but also in how much danger they represent to their victims. Stalkers in this typology suffer from a major mental illness that affects their contact with reality. As a result, their behavior and thinking are likely to be disorganized and confused. They often have histories of arrests as well as histories of treatment for mental illness, and their victims commonly have high-profiles (i.e., actors, political figures). This type of stalker often falsely believes they are romatically involved with their victims, although they often have never met. Although their behavior is often disorganized, their potential for violence (including sexual assaults) tends to be high. There also are stalkers in this category whose behavior is more organized. These individuals are likely to misinterpret a chance gesture or benign behaviors on the part of their victims as evidence of their victim's romantic interest in them. Although they are usually less dangerous than the disorganized type, they can become violent if they feel someone is threatening their "relationship" with the victim.

      4) Sadistic Stalking: Approximately thirteen percent of the stalkers in the Sheridan and Boon research were found to be sadistic. Sadistic stalkers see their victims as their prey. Their goal is to intimidate and frighten their victims through obsessive stalking, threatening notes, and/or other types of communication, including the sending of symbolic gifts. These stalkers feel no sense of remorse for their actions, and they are the most dangerous type of stalkers, including the risk for physical and/or sexual assualts upon their victims.

      Although these categories are not exclusive and represent only one of several different stalking models, they can be useful with respect to reducing violence risk by matching the typology with the most effective interventions for each category. For instance, ex-partner stalkers are likely to respond best to interventions designed to put some distance between the victim and the stalker. As a result, joint therapy is not recommended. Infatuation stalkers may be more responsive to therapy designed to address their thinking/infatuation; and in some cases, the issuance of a restraining order may be helpful in reducing stalking behaviors. Delusional stalkers are mentally ill and therefore often require psychiatric assessment and the administration of psychotropic medication to attempt to alter their delusions. Finally, sadistic stalking cases are the most difficult to address because sadistic stalkers tend to not care about legal restrictions, such as restraining orders. In fact, even after their arrest, they may persist in their attempts to intimidate and frighten their victims by contacting them from jail unless strict monitoring of their phone calls and/or mail is enacted. In some cases, a victim's relocation may be the only way to end the sadistic stalking.

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    • alex souch HARWICH, UNITED KINGDOM
      • 12 months ago

      his gay

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    • Alexander Taylor ARBROATH, UNITED KINGDOM
      • almost 2 years ago

      As a multicultural society everyone is entitled to their own beliefs

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    • clare Taylor HARWICH, UNITED KINGDOM
      • almost 2 years ago

      because my children go to the school

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    • Lee Mitchell DUBLIN, IRELAND
      • almost 2 years ago

      Because i thought persecution for religious beliefs had ended after the dark ages!

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