I'm not sure why you are accusing Focus on the family of hypocricy. Why is it wrong for them to support the causes they believe in? Does caring about a person and wanting to have an honest conversation with them mean that you can't act in areas you disagree? I can't imagine that a LGBT rights activist would lay down their efforts after having a conversation with a Christian. Would that make all gay people hateful spiteful hypocrites? I don't beieve so.