The reason that "Cougars" are such a "hot" topic is that the women are older (by at least 5 years!) than the men and they are spending time with these young, "innocent" men mostly for the sex. If you put the full spin of the Cougar Controversy, that best illustrates how gender stereotypes remain ever ingrained in our society. People still can't wrap their minds around older women/younger men. And they still can't help thinking "slut" if a woman wants to be with a man primarily for sex.
As long as everyone is honest and it's consensual (and legal--no Mary Kay LeTourneau repeats!), there shouldn't be a controversy. But this is, after all, America.
I agree with Stephanie. What she expressed was my second thought after, "How bizarre!". We all need to stay calm on this one. Activists need to work together for change, not against each other.
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