Here's a simple idea that I've been arguing for years: Equal rights mean equal responsibilities, too. Make registration for the draft mandatory for all genders, or for none. I enjoy having doors held for me as much as the next girl, but telling me that I'm not just as much of a resource for defending the country in a time of urgent need as the guy sitting next to me is treating me as a lesser citizen.
I absolutely support this concept, and have believed for a long time that a period of service (with a wide range of options to choose from, including the military) after high school would benefit all young people, whether they are going on to college or the workforce. With some creativity, even those with special needs and teen parents can be included, and in fact can provide an opportunity for their peers to learn.