As a Christian, we have to be careful with the words we choose when we say things publically. Please understand, most Christians don't take the time to process the thought that one can be born LGBT as opposed to "choosing the lifestyle" later in life. As a result, we as Christians do more damage than good and come across as judgemental - when that is not our hearts at all.
But rather, we as Christians love all people just as Jesus did - just have a hard time saying it sometimes...c'mon, we're all people, and people say the wrong things sometimes! And BTW, God Himself is does not descriminate, so why should we?
Rom 2:11 - For God shows no partiality [undue favor or unfairness; with Him one man is not different from another]
It's not supposed to be about tolerance...but rather how does God love His children? Unconditionally. Period.